I lost my best friend 3 years ago on new years day to a fatal car accident. She was also Godmother to my daugher. I found it very hard in the first year but got better coping with this tragedy, until recently when i was in the car and i saw someone that looked very much like her and ever since i hav been having dreams again and everything reminds me of her. Every minute of my life i think of her and im not saying i dont want to think about her but i feel so sad all of the time.
Is anyone going through this or been through this is so how are you coping or how did you cope?
Thankyou
2006-09-24 09:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is hard...but this must be said...Move on.
2006-09-24 09:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Japan_is_home 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll never move on and stop thinking about a loved one. They are always with you. I lost someone dear to me about 3 or so years ago too. I think about him all the time. I even dream about him. I saw someone that looked like him once and it made me sad. For a minute I had to remind myself he wasn't here anymore, but in that moment I was so happy. It was like time stood still and things were back to how they used to be. I also lost another highschool friend to meningitis(sp) I was getting groceries and this guy walked in that looked EXACTLY like him. It was such a shock. I'm kinda happy when things and people remind me of someone I lost. It's like God is giving me an opportunity to see them for a second again. You'll always love and remember someone you lost. I don't think you can ever forget.
2006-09-24 09:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by spankedelic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, I'm so sorry for what you have been through. They say time heals all wounds but I think there are some scars that never heal. I don't think your friend would want you to be sad all the time though so maybe you should consider finding a support group or a therapist to help you deal with your loss. I wish you the best!
2006-09-24 09:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by noyb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what this feels like I lost my bestfriend when I was a year out of highschool she had cancer I had another friend two or three years ago died from kidney failure it sucks but u got to have the will power to go on.
2006-09-24 09:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Renee B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never get over it....you just get on with it. Certain smells, sounds, songs, etc. bring back the pain time and time again. I try to get past the pain and think about what we were doing when we heard that song or whatever and make a good memory. That way I never forget.
2006-09-24 09:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by sassytxlassie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my best friend just left me and i felt so bed i didn't feel like doing nothing life was boring until i started ignoring him and then he apoligised and we were just friends not best friends
2006-09-24 09:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by ahmed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
iam sorry
2006-09-24 09:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋