Alright, this is in relation to my previous question...what is the difference......?

Question

...between an innocent friendship and friendship where there is sexual attraction??

And dont say sex, or kissing or any of the physical stuff - im talking about behaviour and traits in speech.

Answer 1

Sexual attraction your behaviour will be different you will probably use more intense eye contact, longer starting or looking at each other then looking away. Your face will light up when you see that person, in a totally different way than in friendship its all in the body langauge and the eyes, the eyes are the give away. You smile at each other, i can see it in my head but i can't explain it.

You'll be close to each other, possibly brushing each others leg, arm, touching of faces. Personal space will be different, people will get closer during sexual attraction. In friendship you do get close but its a different type of closeness.

hugs and cuddles last longer when there are a sexual attraction.
In terms of langauge there may be sexual connotations to the speech, flirting.

It actually really difficult to describe, as you can see it in your minds eye but its hard to describe.

Answer 2

You already have the answer is that there is a difference and boundaries in every relationship. RESPECT is wat makes the relationship wat it is. In a friendship you are there for a person in ways that his/her significant other cannot be. You tend to be impartial to situations as a platonic friend when there's a sexual attraction it inhibits your ability to be impartial because now you're trying to figure out a way to manipulate the situation to make it easier to get in their pants.

Answer 3

Most innocent relationships ... involve people u r not physically attracted too, i.e best buddy, pets... gay friends... maybe.