The homecoming dance at my school is coming up. My friend, Susan asked me to go out and eat with her boyfriend who is 4 years older then her. I have never met him and either has her parents. She swears up and down that he is a nice guy, but that's not the problem. He started telling one of Susan and I friends that he loves her behind Susan's back. The problem is he's never meet the girl he calms to love or he's never seen a pic. We told Susan what her boyfriend was saying and she forgived him because she is a little desperate. This guy doesn't seem right ot me, how can I tell Susan that she should break up with him without affending her and should I go out to eat with them??? I know it's the wrong catorgery but you guys seem so smart in here! lol
2006-09-24 09:10:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You're her friend. You have to tell her. Gently and honestly, saying you really you don't want to hurt her, but you have to tell her what nobody else is.
Guys like that just become worse and worse. She'll end up thanking you.
2006-09-24 09:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you Say Susan is a little desperate, hopefully she is not so desperate that she will continue with this guy. You tell her your self. she will thank you for it. If you know about him and she finds out you do and didn't tell her she will be upset with you. and to be a real friend you have to take chances on what ever happens.
2006-09-24 09:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of this, if I were you. Let her find out herself, what kind of guy he is. Since you have kind of hard feelings towards him, no, you shouldn't go with them.
Just tell her you would feel like a 3rd wheel (at least that's the way I understand your question). Or just say no... you don't have to have a reason at all. No thank you is just fine.
2006-09-24 09:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nunya - nunya business. You tell her by your actions. When she ask why you don't want to hang with them, let her know that it is not right to be hanging with someone that your parents don't know. Too many sick and twisted things are happening today.
2006-09-24 09:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm bad at advice, and relationships, but try to catch him in the act.
2006-09-24 09:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her nicely but also tell her it's what u think. and if u think this guy is weird go with them if u think he could be dangerous
2006-09-24 09:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋