i'm a girl in love with my male friend.two days ago we were on a school trip and he said somethnig stupid (he was joking but i was still kinda angry with him) so i tried to ignore him.but later he kissed one girl (who's my friend too) and while he was kissing her he was looking me STRAIGHT in eyes...later i think he saw me crying and he came but he didn't obviously know what to say so he left. yesterday i had my birthday party and he completely ignored me until i said 'it's someone's birthday' so he hugged and just kissed me on the cheek.
whole last week in school he was giving me signals so i thought i had a chance....and he's a GREAT guy (at least he seems like that) and girls love him...please help me - tomorrow i'm gonna see him at school i don't know what should i say and how should i act?
2006-09-24 09:09:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i meant to say that he seemed like a great guy, sorry.
2006-09-24 09:26:29 · update #1
Do nothing. Live your life. Do your thing. Get on with your routine. Pretend to care nothing at all about him or anything else except doing your thing. Have fun.
Men are stupid. You need to learn to keep the upper hand. Nature gives that to you. So when you see him, and if he happens to make an effort to greet you, polite response and see you later man. Just keep politlely setting him aside (for days, weeks, months...) and you will discover a new reality: a) if he REALLY likes you at all, he´ll have to come back on YOUR rules when he wants to, and he should be very excited to once you offer him this uninterested behaviour or b) he doesn´t care a dime about you and you can move on to someone who does. Voila. Men are stupid. We all love women too much. It always works. By that time, your move decides history. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-09-24 09:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by flyingdebris1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You crack me up!. At one point you are pissed at him for being an a**--which I totally agree with. And, then in your conclusion you say he is a "GREAT guy"...seems like that to you?
I would step back with this one. He's playing with your heart and you are playing into the whole scheme. He knows that you are interested in him. If he is really interested in you, he will have to (and should) approach you. Especially after pulling a stunt like that on the bus! What an a**! I personally wouldn't like the guy any longer...at least for a relationship.
I would try to focus on other things and act like yourself and say only what you are comfortable with.
2006-09-24 16:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is making you jealous what you should do is play his game and flirt with other guys in front of him. He'll hate and tell you wether he likes you or not. Plus he is being immature
2006-09-24 16:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Meli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is teasing you because he likes you.
Tell him straight up how you feel.
Tell him that you don't appreciate the things he does.
You have to do it or you'll never know how he feels.
It's called playing hard to get.
2006-09-24 16:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can stop acting stupid....stop 'crying'......stop all that game playing. Be nice, friendly, smile and let it be......what ever happens, will happen!
2006-09-24 16:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Don't play his game and just ignore him!
2006-09-24 16:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is a player and just 4get him
2006-09-24 16:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋