I am in a very complex and very delicate situation with a woman and I have to be careful with my words. This woman has not lied to me at all, but she is not telling me what I want to know. I think that she is afraid to tell me but I don't know why. PLEASE HELP ME LADIES!!!
2006-09-24 08:50:36 · 13 answers · asked by randall w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
who is wearing the pants here! If she is up front with you and tells you the truth all the time, then ask her, what's on your mind. what is she going to do? run off, or hit you or something. I don't think she would lie to you or would she? Just be nice. Margo
2006-09-24 09:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by mango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He He, very tactful Adam12! You made me giggle for the first time today, but you do have some truth in your statement!
I would also suggest to ask her, or maybe the delicate situation means she's married or involved with someone else, is she?
To decipher what your meaning by " delicate situation ", I'd have to have more facts. Or maybe she's pregnant and your relationship is still in the " green stage ", where you don't know each other very well yet to be able to open up with each other.
Fill us in a little more.
2006-09-24 16:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truly most fantastic rule to apply in a relationship of any kind (especially sexual relationships): Be honest. It feels great, it is REAL and it always works. Be honest, in both your answers and your questions. So, ask the question you want to hear the answer for. It will feel great. Unless you get the answer you don´t want...but if it is an honest answer, you deal with it, and it will only make you grow stronger as a person. Good luck
2006-09-24 15:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by flyingdebris1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want the truth. Because deep down, in places you
don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall. You need me on the wall.
We use words like honor, code, loyalty...we use these words
as the backbone to a life spent defending something. You
use 'em as a punchline
I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself
to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very
freedom I provide, then questions the manner in which I
provide it. I'd prefer you just said thank you and went on
your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and
stand a post. Either way, I don't give a damn what you
think you're entitled to.
2006-09-24 15:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't push. Ask simple questions in a non-threatening manner and hopefully you'll get answers.
If you don't, it may be that she's just not ready to talk about it.
Reassure her that you'll be there for her. Hold her hand. Look into her eyes.
Prepare yourself for whatever it is she's holding in. It sounds like it might be something major.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-24 16:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by happinessdreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her a nice dinner for 2 with candels and stuff, and just talk. Bring up the subject and stuff. By the end of dinner she should be talking. If not, watch a chickflick movie. and start kissing her. if she likes you enough, she will talk!
2006-09-24 15:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Vivi [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this relationship worth the angst she is putting you thru?
2006-09-24 15:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... I think u should b honest with her..... First of all.... how old is this woman?
2006-09-24 15:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Grow some balls and ask her "
Whoever said that is a dumbass since you clearly said that you asked but she didnt tell you everything
Just say
"Listen could you please tell me (Enter text here)I promise i wont be mad."
~Justinmc93
2006-09-24 15:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Justinmc93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probally as scared as you so ya just take your time with her and you wont regret it
2006-09-24 15:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by KaitCzaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋