Do you think that as males, being sexually abused has opened you to temptation from homosexual acts?

Question

I dont know if its true but its crazy that I dont really want to be in any homosexual relationships ( I definitely want to marry a girl and fall in love with a girl and I am also attracted to girls). But I feel like my sexual abuse as a child may have caused some yearning for male sex. I dont know but it doesnt feel natural when the feeling arises and its so strong and after its over I just wish that it never happened. Anyone else know what IM talking about. PS anyone who wants to just come on here and say Im gay thanks but no thanks Im looking for other guys who know what Im talking about.

Answer 1

You need to get counseling to sort out your feelings. Being molested has a huge impact on your sexuality. Your local Dept of Human services will provide free or low cost counseling. Get help before you get into a relationship with a woman and hurt her.

Answer 2

well, i'm sorry because i'm a female but it's not my place to judge you. for you to feel the way you do it's not being gay. you need to seek help from God and if you don't believe in him which I hope you do. then you need counseling. you can over come the urges. You are stating that you want to spend the rest of your life with a female and you want kids then stay focus on what you want and everything will be all right. trust yourself first. best wishes

Answer 3

,This is a difficult feeling to overcome because it is a kind of enjoyment , don't follow it.. Understand that it is against nature and it shall drag you to unknown fate and let you loose the greater enjoyment of life with the other sex and let you loose the core of social life. Be a strong, find female mates and friends and play, enjoy, feel their tender bodies and pretty subordination and do not look back , move ahead with the crowd.