OK, I'm 26 years old and doubt I've had an orgasm considering that people say that I'll definately know when I do. My problem is getting there. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years and I've only been with 2 people in my life. I've tried the maturbating thing and sometimes when I get close to that point I'll just stop, like I'm afraid or something, maybe because I don't know what exactly will happen. I've heard about women ejaculating and am nervous about doing that in front of my boyfriend if it even will happen. Can someone give me some advice?
2006-09-24 08:09:39 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's not all that bad I just turned 30 but I had my first orgasm when I was about 26. I had the same problem, what I finally did is that instead of stopping let it finish, it is the best feeling in the world. No to sound nasty or anything but experiment on yourself. I found a small vibrator at one of my friends fun parties called the silver bullet. It let me know where to arouse yourself and when you are intimate with your other half you know where to be.
2006-09-24 08:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is going to happen?
Orgasms are normal and natural.
If you're afraid that your reaction is going to be something weird (like yelling a la peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, lol) try to go it alone first. Take your time. The fun is in getting there.
And don't worry about your boyfriend. Your orgasm is only going to turn him on more.
Good luck.
2006-09-24 08:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by happinessdreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax...most women don't 'ejaculate'...orgasm is basically muscle contractions...it can happen clitorally (stimulating the clitoris) or vaginally (from intercourse or use of a dildo or fingers)...some women don't orgasm vaginally...
It's a pleasurable sensation, but the first time it happened to me (when I was grade school age and first tried masturbating) it scared me...I didn't know what I'd done and my heart was racing and I felt all tingly all over...
There's nothing to fear from it...in fact, it's generally why most people have sex (other than procreation)...most species don't enjoy the act of sex...humans do, because of how our orgasms feel :)
2006-09-24 08:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women ejaculate. To get an orgasm just keep doing what ever you do and start thinking of dirty thoughts and get faster and faster. then you will be like I want another but im to tired now.
2006-09-24 08:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are nervous about what will happen and don't want to be 'embarrassed'. Try masturbating by yourself, and finish, that way you will know what will happen, but it will only be you, so you shouldn't feel embarrassed. Then once you know what happen you will be able to relax more and allow yourself to have an orgasm with him around, maybe even one during sex. You might be mentally making yourself not have one during sex. good luck
2006-09-24 08:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is going to happen if you have an orgasm, and very few women can ejaculate.
2006-09-24 08:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't stop! and look at some porn, realize that sex isn't a bad thing, infact it's a very wonderful thing. And your boyfriend would love it if you squirted, I guarantee you that. Unfortunately very few women have the ability :-(
2006-09-24 08:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over your nervousness. Talk to him about it and make an orgasm a goal for you both. I'm sure he'll be very responsive
2006-09-24 08:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find that it is easier to *** when I masturbate. Try doing that to start with and actually go through with it this time. Then you can tell your BF how you like it...
2006-09-24 08:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ~ sorry ~ why do you stop? ~ what are you afraid of? ~ everybody does it ~ just keep going ~ it feels wonderful ~ try masturbating again
2006-09-24 08:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋