this two faceded friend?

Question

so my friend told me that my other friend was talking about me and said that i was fake and stuff and that she wasnt going to call me anymore but now shes now calling me and acting like she didnt talk bull **** and shes being two face, and she calls me and my friend when she doesnt have anyone else to talk to so shes basically using us, like she has other friends but when theyre mad at her then she just hangs out with us until theyre not mad at her anymore, and she talks bull **** about us

Answer 1

I am really shocked how close this situation is to MY life too! this guy hates my guts, and he tells my friends that i talk about them behind teir back! he is a freakin liar and im really annoyed. he is a poser too, so whenever he meets new people he just conforms to them and magically likes everything they do...... therefore gaining false friends. but when he has no one to talk to, he will come over and talk to my friends an I Like we have been best friends for life!!!!!!! I tell him to go away, because he is a 2 faced liar who makes fun of my friends and me and then tries to get on our good side!!!!!!! i cant stand him...


my story is a bit different from yours, but still the same idea. My advice to you is the same thing I would do, and I am doing: get rid of the "friend". I dont know how someone like that could consider herself your friend......really, i barely know you, but i know you are too good for her.......tell her someway, face to face, phone, email (i would suggest email, thats what i would do) and tell her to get lost, she isnt your friend, she is 2 faced, and a sneaky rat who backstabs friends......just seperate yourself from her, you really dont need the stress.. the kid i was talkin about, i just ignore him, and when he tries to be all nice, i just give him a dirty look, because he really isnt worth my breath


Good luck with whatever you choose to do woth your "friend" and I hope this advice helped you to figure out just what you need to do


:D

Answer 2

I would very calmly tell this girl that you and your friend know exactly what she is up to and you do not accept it. When she can be mature enough to accept you as a genuine friend and not just someone to pass time with then and only then she should call you to hang out.

Answer 3

Well, with friends like that, you don't need enemies. She is not behaving like a true friend, but if I were you I would sit her down and let her know the hurt that her behaviour is causing and ask her why she is behaving like that, and if she persists, cut her loose...life in itself can be unsettling enough without that type of distress.

Answer 4

Friendship should not be hard work. If a friendship is stressing you out you don't need it. You shouldn't have to work to be someones friend. It should just flow easily. If it is hard work and stress then get rid of it. Don't answer her calls and avoid her. Maybe she will get the hint.

Answer 5

well obviously shes being hella fake and stop talking to her, what you need to do is teach her a lesson trust me i know how fake ppl are and they need an end to this fakeness they have

Answer 6

Tell her to hang out somewhere else. Who needs it? She isn't a friend.

Answer 7

oh gee. that must be my ex girlfriend doll. shes a total *****, good luck because shes a leach also. and i hope youre boyfriend has condoms. if hes a guy that lives within 100 miles shes already screwed him. and yes debra youre a total ******* whore and i hate you *****.

Answer 8

Boo Hoo. So sad. Too bad.

Answer 9

stop being her friend. don't just go up to ans say that you're not her friend anymore. just make it gradual.

Answer 10

Oh my god are you like totally serious