2006-09-24 07:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
When the teacher asks the student to touch the teacher, the teacher is abusing a role of authority in education, and depending on the nature of 'touch', could be a violation of the law. If you have not told your best friend yet that you are aware that the teacher is asking her to touch him, inform her of your concern for her as an individual, since she can be put in danger, as well. She may not be the only student the teacher is asking to touch him.
Telling your parents of the situation is the best bet, they will be able to help you talk with your best friend or her parents, who need to know what's going on with their daughter. I would suggest your parents being aware of the issue, and I hope you are not being asked to touch a teacher.
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2006-09-27 12:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by BlackPantherNightmare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like the other answers, I'll say that this is a dangerous situation.
Most touching by a teacher is innapropriate. A pat on the back for a good grade is one thing. But if the teacher is asking for hugs (or more), she definately shouldn't be doing so.
Ask her how she feels when he asks her to touch him. Because most people would feel innately uncomfortable with that situation. That's her mind telling her that the actions are wrong. She should be listening to the signals, not the teacher.
There are polite ways to refuse contact. Pretending she's sick, or just being the first one out of the room.
If the touching is really innapropriate (sexual in nature), you have a duty to your friend to help protect her. She may be scared, and in the future will wonder why you stood by and did nothing to help her. Tell your parents, her parents, a police officer. The counsellor may not help much since they are collegues. Please help your friend. She may be angry (from embarassment) after it all comes out, but she will be grateful to you one day.
2006-09-24 07:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When the teacher asks the student to touch the teacher, the teacher is abusing a role of authority in education, and depending on the nature of 'touch', could be a violation of the law. If you have not told your best friend yet that you are aware that the teacher is asking her to touch him, inform her of your concern for her as an individual, since she can be put in danger, as well. She may not be the only student the teacher is asking to touch him.
Telling your parents of the situation is the best bet, they will be able to help you talk with your best friend or her parents, who need to know what's going on with their daughter. I would suggest your parents being aware of the issue, and I hope you are not being asked to touch a teacher.
2006-09-24 07:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Another Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is too much for you to deal with. You need to tell your parents and have them go with you to talk to the principal privately. If they do not think the principal would take this seriously and respond appropriately, they might prefer going to Child Protective Services instead. This teacher is the adult. The student is not. No one should be in a position of responsibility over students if they are asking the students to touch them. This is criminal activity!!!! Your friend needs help and the only way you can help her is to have adults help you report this teacher. Your friend is a victim. She needs help and so do all the other students this teacher might try to molest. Don't stop until she gets help and the teacher gets to tell his story to a judge.
2006-09-24 07:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever long long gone tenting previously than? have you ever been to the area they're going to? Is the buddy lady? Is she and her buddy cpr and huge-unfold aide authorized? Are the buddy's mum and dad going? If those style of solutions at the instant are no, then no i'd now not permit my daughter or son bypass. 18 or now not your house your concepts. She is eighteen and there are serious matters to letting her bypass off like that. in case you prefer to permit her bypass, then purely seek advice from the campsite, seek advice from the buddy's mum and dad. Have your daughter acquire the pocket first aide and cpr app and so as that they take a small first aide kit. make certain they take a various cellular battery or a energizer battery powered cellular telephone charger. and make valuable she takes condoms. In case, their purpose is to fulfill up with some boys.
2016-12-18 16:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by dotel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your teacher is abusing your friend, and that is NOT okay, at all, ever. It doesn't matter what you tell her, because even if he stops abusing your friend, he is still going to do it to someone else. You need to tell your parents and the school principal what you know. Do it right now, don't wait.
2006-09-24 07:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you see a teacher asking a student to touch him, then you need to report it immediately.
Tell your friend to run in the other direction. Then she needs to tell the principal, her parents or another responsible adult.
2006-09-24 07:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is having a relationship with a teacher at school, you should probably tell the counsoler. Tell the him/her to keep your name secret so that your best friend will not know. You shouldn't keep it secret because farther down the line things are sure to get out of hand and you would and your friend would wish you would've said some thing.
2006-09-24 07:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by MsHunny 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
skip the best friend, tell authorities. He is a pedophile and needs to be removed.
2006-09-24 07:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by wzrdsndrgns 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not tell your Best friend
It might be better to tell her Parents ASAP
2006-09-24 07:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by LJRobbie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋