2006-09-24 07:18:38 · 46 answers · asked by K 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't be stupid. Leave him.
This question makes me want to slap someone.
2006-09-24 07:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Duncarin 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Let me just tell you that you should definitely leave him. I used to be abused by an ex, he would always cry afterward and say he would never do it again (after giving me a black eye or bruises elsewhere), but abusers can't help it. If you have it in you to do something like that then you can't be changed. Think about it, why would you hit someone? Obviously he is a loser. That boyfriend that hit me also beat his ex (who I later became friends with!) and broke the orbital socket around her eye. She had to have surgery to fix it. Trust me this only leads to no good if you stay with him! If you stay with him and he does hit you again then you will have definite proof he can't or won't stop. If you decide to stay with him because he is cute (which is stupid because lots of great guys that won't hit you are cute too!) then you will see for yourself that once an abuser always an abuser (unless he seeks counselling then maybe he might be reformed that way) Hope you choose what you know in your heart is right. :)
Oh by the way, I am now with an amazing guy who has never hit me and never would and is very cute! We have been together for over 2 years! You will find someone better as long as you give yourself the chance to try!
2006-09-24 07:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy_Bunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, you should get away from him as fast as you can. There are many "hot" guys around that have self respect enough not to hit a female. Of course he promised not to do it again and he wont until next time, when he will again promise not to do it again. It is a vicious cycle. And you deserve better get away now. this is just a sign of things to come, if it weren't in him it wouldn't of happened in the first place. Something inside of him has allowed him to believe this is OK, it is never OK. He needs help, you can not help him.
2006-09-24 07:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, honey, do not stay with him. Run, do not walk, to the nearest exit. I worked with women who were abused by their husbands or boyfriends for 11 years. Every single abuser promised they'd never do it again. And they always did it again. And again ... and again ... and again ... He won't stop! He's sorry now. He sounds sincere. But, after a while, things will build up again and he'll find an excuse to do it again. He'll probably tell you that you made him do it, that it's your fault. You cannot make another person hit you, call you names, put you down, etc. Please break up with him. Tell your parents what's going on so that they can help you. I'm sure they don't want this boy to treat you this way. God bless!
2006-09-24 07:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! he will hit you again. Because he knows you will stay with him. I have not seen a man who is a hitter not repeat himself, no matter how much he says he won't. He has a temper issue and that doesn't go away without help. I have been there, done that, and wore the bruises to show for it. There are alot of really good looking men who will treat you the way you should be treated, and not as a punching bag for his childish anger.
2006-09-24 07:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by wzrdsndrgns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that...leave now before down the line you regret anymore time you've wasted with the low life. there are plenty of other "hot" guys out there, go find yourself a good one. they always say it won't happen again...and it always does. your self esteem will keep dropping notches til you have nothing left, it's not worth it, and you deserve better! keep him in your memory as a reminder and standard guide of the type of boyfriend you never want again. so you asked advice...i say run don't walk away from the loser.
best wishes!
2006-09-24 07:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K, your last word "HOT" rhyme with "NOT", you should "NOT" stay with him, if he hit you once he will do it again.
Anytime a man touches a woman she should feel nothing but pleasure.
There are many "HOT" men out there who would never hit a woman.
As a man, I am forever thanking God for saying man should not be alone.
K, I forgot the time we are living in and just assumed you are a woman, if you are not please disregard my comments, but if you are a woman, remember this, women are a gift from God to us men, and only a fool would abuse a gift from God.
Be patience and trust in God, your soul mate is out there.
2006-09-24 07:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo fool, he b slappin yo assss again and dat b fo sho. He has a anger management problem. I know chics who got hit , they b havin black eye, broken noses, bruises, and dat b only the start. All these fools b tellin them I wont do it again when history b showin once they b hittin they not b stoppin anytime soon. Dump this fool. U dont need his physical abuse or verbal abuse. By the way hittin somebody (anybody) is an arrestable crime. Its called assult. Dont get this twisted. Dont Even Trip...
2006-09-24 07:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dont Trip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear daughter,
Please go to your local 84 Lumber and purchase a piece of 2 by 4 large enough to use but not to heavy for you to handle.
Smack him across the back of the head with it.
While he is lying there looking 'hot',
smack yourself in the head with it.
No! Get a life!
2006-09-24 07:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, be warned! he may be repeating the negative stress induced behaviors he picked up from his parents/friends...although he is such a hot guy(not yet Tom Cruize), although you have committed so many hours/money/words just to stay with him...I am afraid this is just the beginning of the nightmare...especially if he prefer non-verbal way of complainting to your request...I saw a lot of beatened woman and children coming from guys like those...and even corps...and I wish that you keep a safe distance from him...before you draw more conclusion pertaining with him/his behaviors from the way he treats his parent/siblings...brothers/sisters.
2006-09-24 07:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he's hot. And once he hits you the first time it will only happen again..Are you going to stick around for the next time. Or hey maybe the next time he will leave you for dead. He will look real hot to Bubba after that happens..
2006-09-24 07:21:11 · answer #11 · answered by Smurfette 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋