Ok my best friend and I have been friends since pre-k and the end of 6th grade we started hanging out with Cheyenne...another girl. I became real jealous because they tarted calling themselves sisters and they left me out of alot of stuff. So one day I called Cheyenne a bad name and she told my Best Friend and my best friend got mad at me. Now we barely talk. How do I get my Best Friend back?
2006-09-24 07:01:05 · 12 answers · asked by tayluuuuuh bby(: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Cease your jealous ways and only say good things about people, if possible.
2006-09-24 07:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by casual observer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similar situation happened to me in high school. I was BEST friends with my friend Katie, but suddenly she started becoming very close with another girl. She began leaving me out of things with her new friend and I started to become increasingly distant. I started trash talking her new friend and it got me nowhere. I think that if I had tried to apologize to Katie about saying those things, we could have worked things out. I think you should just talk to you friend, suggest that maybe all three of you could hang out sometime. Ask her to include you in something that her and Cheyenne are doing, and try to work things out. But you have to be willing to work things out with Cheyenne as well. Don't just be nice to her to get your friend back; eventually you'll get tired of it and it will only cause more problems. Who knows though, you may even get another good friend from the situation. If your friend really wants to continue your friendship, she'll want to work things out. If she would rather not work things out with you and move on to being "sisters" with Cheyenne, then you should accept that she's reached a different point in her life. Just keep in mind that truly great friends are hard to come by, so don't give her up without a fight.
2006-09-24 14:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, i am sorry. I lost my best friend too. Over this guy she met online. I didn't have a good feeling about it so i left. I moved a year before this and i walked to her neighbors house (my other friend) and i stayed there. But you will make new friends. But if you want to try to get your friend back talk to her. Say you dont think its fair that you are left out. Tell her how it is. And if she doesn't accept it she would be no friends anyhow Good Luck
2006-09-24 14:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by xoxox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to start.May I tell you about my best friend? This happened the Nov Kennedy was shot. I was 13 and my friend kept teasing me a bout a boy I liked. I got mad a t her and told her to drop dead.Thank God I apologized. That week end she had an appendicitis attack, on the operating table she had an asthma attack and died.I learned to watch what came out of my mouth. It has affected me greatly to loose a friend and to think we fought over something so petty. Good luck in mending you relationship.
2006-09-24 14:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about choices--instead of calling your best friends "sister" a bad name you could have gtalked to your best friend. I would suggest to try and talk to both of them to apologize and to explain how you felt "left out". What you have to realize there is that your best friend still was your best friend---it is ok to have more than one friend you know. You can hang out with a lot of people, go out with them because you have like interests and have a best friend who does not hang out with you.....so maybe that was the case with Cheyenne and your best friend. Give it a try and talk to both of them---the damage is done, but maybe you can repair it with that...Good Luck
2006-09-24 14:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think i't's kind of their fault too, because they left you out. Well, you can write an invition to a place, then you guys talk about what is going on and stuff. And you tell them that it relaly hurts you when they left you out on a lot things. Then you can let them have a chance to talk about their feelings. Later you can tell them that you are sorry for what you had say to Cheynne. Maybe they will say sorry too, then it comes to a happy ending*Friends again*
Good luck!
2006-09-24 14:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing! You'll look back at all this one day and wonder why it let you consume it.....go on, find a new friend. At your age, when they're that easy to give you up as a friend, they're not worth it in the long run!!!!! That's my advice.
2006-09-24 14:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by woodybeer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to her and tell her you were a little hurt over her new friend. It is normal to feel this way.
2006-09-24 14:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by voncaros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all this is a part os school life.just tell her that u really like her and thats why u were jealous.......she ll be flattered.good luck
2006-09-24 14:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by sandesh.sm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell them to forgive you and apologize.
2006-09-24 14:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋