Can a bi-Sexual man be Faithful to a woman?

Question

The faithfulness of our relationship was always in question, he said not to worry, He is in love with me. I don't know what to do.

Answer 1

Just because a person is "capable" of loving either gender doesn't mean that they are more likely to NEED to love both.

There are so many different types of people that it would be impossible for complete strangers on the Internet to be able to say if your boyfriend can or would cheat on you.

You have to make that determination for yourself. You are the one that knows his patterns. You are the one that knows his personal level of honesty and openness. How could we know?

The issue here is a matter of trust. I think you should take the sexual orientation factor off the table for a second and treat it like you would/should ANY other relationship. Based on EVERYTHING you have ever learned about they type of person he is, you must find the answers to these questions.

I was married when I was young. I can honestly report that I never cheated on my wife from the moment we were engaged until the month after we filed for divorce. I have been in a homosexual relationship for 16 years, now, and haven't once felt the need to have a girlfriend, too. I don't fall in love with a gender. When I commit to a person, it means THAT person ONLY, no matter what gender he/she is. Bisexual men have the capacity for faithfulness. All men are capable of cheating. Would you feel any better if your boyfriend cheated on you with another woman?

Answer 2

It will be hard for him and some time down the road he may be sorely tempted to cheat. If I had it to do all over again I would never have married. Bisexual men are especially vulnerable to this as women are generally not as tolerant about a same sex experience on the side as a man will be with a woman's same sex lover. I married because I love my wife and thought I could deny my bisexual nature. I thought my wife would be able to satisfy my sexuality she was not. I still need a man in my life. When we are divorced and I am with my partner I will be free to have sex with a woman if I want because we will have an open relationship he is also a bisexual man.

Answer 3

Listen Of COURSE its Possible. If you are with someone you love and their is someone your attracted to, you dont have to sleep with them. I mea you are still human you might wonder what its like to sleep with someone else especially if they are sexy as all hell. This doesnt mean a thing. When your in love no matter what the relationship there is always room to be faithful. It makes no difference whether he is gay, bi or str8. Monogamy is monogamy. NOw I will tell you this, in my experience if a guy likes men he usually always likes men more than with a women. He may stay with you because he loves you but he will eventually probably want a man some where down the road!

Answer 4

Yes, just as a straight or gay man can be faithful. He will always have a sexual attraction to both other women and to men, but if he's committed to the relationship he won't cheat.

Answer 5

Of course he can. But you must understand that you will not fulfill all the needs in his life. There will always be one or more men. Now, this can create a problem unless he is totally committed to practicing safe sex. He can catch a disease such as AIDS from another man and pass it along to you. Many years ago, I had a relationship with a bisexual lady. I was able to satisfy her sexual needs, but could not satisfy her emotional needs. I understood and accepted the relationship for what is was and so did she. She eventually married a man and had children with him, but still had the same female lover for many years.

Answer 6

Why is the faithfulness of your relationship in question? Has he actually done something to question your trust in him?

Please note: My posting references my understanding about bisexuals, and may not in any way be of use to you - as I don't know the full facts about your situation.

On their own, bisexuals are no more likely to be unfaithful than homosexuals or heterosexuals. A heterosexual man could run off with another woman, or a homosexual man could run off with another man. Being cheated on is bad enough on its own - irrespective of who the third person is.

There are bisexuals who are unfaithful, but then there are bisexuals who are faithful to their partners. A heterosexual male is always going to be attracted to other females - but won't act upon this attraction if he is faithful. A bisexual male will continue to experience an attraction to males and females but again, his faithfulness will determine whether he'll act upon it.

Whilst the bisexual male is attracted to both genders, one may believe 2 genders = 2 x the probability of cheating. In reality, the heterosexual male and the bisexual male will be attracted to roughly the same number of people. The heterosexual male may be attracted to blonde and brunette females, and the bisexual may be attracted to blonde men and blonde women.

Answer 7

Bisexuals are usually not faithful, no matter what they say. They simply enjoy sleeping with both sexes. He may be faithful to you, but I wouldn't be completely confident in it. Then again, a lot of straight people are not faithful either.

Answer 8

Yes, it can be done. However, we do not know the man. We do not know if he has acted on his attraction to men in any great degree or if he feels a strong urge to act on it. Many men like him have married and suppressed their sexual attraction for other males -- and some have failed and eventually step out on their wives.

It depends on the person, nice lady. Be careful.

Answer 9

Just because he is bi doesn't mean he will cheat. That is ridiculous. He has more options but that is like saying. I have a choice between ice cream or cake and you can only have one. That doesn't mean Im going to sneak and get the cake when you aren't looking.. but it is a possibility.

Answer 10

Because he is Bi-sexual does not mean he is going to cheat...plenty of str8 and gay people cheat....why is it that because he likes and feels comfortable sleeping with both sexes he automatically cannot be faithful?