i walked in on him once when his "supposibly" friend was over and they were making out and doin other things......
2006-09-24 06:54:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You do nothing.
2006-09-24 06:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by lovemcss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do about it?
There isn't much you can do except continue to love him as your brother. This is his life, not yours.
If you saw him making out with a girl what would you do?
If I was still young and saw my sister making out with anyone I wouldn't jump to judgment about whom she was with but I sure would talk to her about protecting herself physically and emotionally.
Jumping to judgment about whom he is with will only put distance between you and your brother.
I have seen families crumble because someone was gay. It is very painful for all involved and sometimes very hard to repair later when previously judgmental family members were sorry for their actions.
You can have your own opinion on rather you think homosexuality is right or wrong but ask yourself this... Would your brother risk losing the love of his family if he could control what he feels?
2006-09-24 14:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you have a chance... tell your brother that you love him, unconditionally. As you profess your love to him, it will flow through you and you will feel right doing so.
Remember learning this in kindergarten... it takes all kinds to make the world go round. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all tin soldiers, now wouldn't it?
Embrace his individualism and he will give you the same respect and not be judgmental of you either.
2006-09-24 14:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is your brother. You love him for who he is. That is his choice. At lease he wasn't in bed with a 13 year old girl and out on the streets going drugs.
2006-09-24 13:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love him as you always have. Be thankful you have a brother, and realize he will need you and your support. It's his choice on who he has a relationship with, just as it is your choice. If you are there for him, he will be there for you. He is the same person as always, and you loving him for that will mean the world to him. Please do not judge. Life is too short.
2006-09-24 14:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by wzrdsndrgns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start is he a new born or a baby? Check the category next time! Secondly why would you want to do anything? it is up to him surely are you really gonna try to convert him or disown him?
Get a life.
2006-09-24 14:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him and be there for him if he feels he needs to talk. Don't judge him as so many people will do that. Be a good sister as you would hope he would do the same for you.
2006-09-24 14:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by Serenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your nose out of his sex life and hope he does the same for you.
Your brother is the same person today that he was before.
2006-09-24 19:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kiari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, what should you do? Just because he's gay doesn't mean that you treat him any differently. He's your brother. Love him and be there for him.
2006-09-24 13:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Gina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love him. He is your brother regardless of whether he is gay or straight. You should love him just the same.
2006-09-24 18:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by mommyofthree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you accept it so you can have a healthy relationship with him now and in the future. It's your call and your loss if you choose to not accept it.
2006-09-24 13:59:04 · answer #11 · answered by Mara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋