In a nutshell, I have this guy friend who I'm sarting to fall for. I'mm afraid it's a serious feeling. It scared me to death. It's a long story, but we could never be together. How do i get him off my mind. I want to keep being his friend, but idw any special feelings towards him. Should i stop hanging out with him for a while? Try to think about something/someone else? PLS HELP ME! I'm GOING CRAZY!
2006-09-24 06:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey if u have this guy in ur head all the time that means u like him and just start doing things other things that dont remind u of him and dont stop hanging out with him if u guys r friends i know ut ur going through i like sum1 so much i cant think of anything else and i really dont know wut i do to get through an entire day of skool but first try listing a few things u dont like about him and just list the things u dont like about him and not the things u do ok it might be hard at first but it will get easier and b4 u know it ul be like ew how cud i like him ok good luck
2006-09-24 06:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by just live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? It could be something 'more' than just friends. But if you do really want to stop, then everytime you realise you're thinking about him in that way banish the thought. Maybe even try the elastic band technique. Where you have an elastic band on your wrist and everytime you start to fall for him, pull the band and let it go. Strange idea I know but it might work. I guess you're just going to have to distract yourself.
2006-09-24 06:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Phantom Ice-Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people on here are telling you to do the obvious--which is tell the guy how you feel....
but it sounds like...something has occurred where you just can't and won't do that.
we don't know the whole story....
but to get over the guy...it's not cool to continue to be his friend. you'll just make yourself go even MORE crazy! the whole time...you'll be making "goo goo" eyes at him...and he'll be looking at you like a "pal".
one sided friendships are just never healthy.
you're going to have to cut off ties with the guy...and just talk to him every now and then via email or telephone.
you'll have to do this...until you've found someone else to occupy your mind.
2006-09-24 07:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by CutiePatootie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like this guy is in your heart..........as much as in your head. If he occupies your heart, it may take a long time to get him out....maybe never. Good luck girl!
2006-09-24 06:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~hopeless love~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE FRIENDS [ GOOD FRIENDS /BUDDIES OR WHAT?] DO YOU LIKE WHAT YOU GOT GOING NOW WITH HIM? THERE ARE TWO THINGS THAT CAN SPOIL A FRIEND SHIP BETWEEN A MALE & FEMALE NOT BEING UP FRONT WITH EACH OTHER & A ONE NIGHT FLING ! TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY. OR FIND TEMPORY BF AND SEE HOW HE REACTS TO HIM [ IN NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE WAY]
2006-09-24 06:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by crash man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just listen or think of sommetyhing that makes u happy it should tak your mind off of him just relax do mooosa like in bad boy 2 tha movie
2006-09-24 06:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl_homies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could,without knowing the reason you could never be together I have to say u should find something else to occupy youur time.
2006-09-24 06:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not in your head. He's in your heart.
2006-09-24 06:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋