I never realised I was attracted to girls sexually,'til my bf suggested 3-some...now just the thought of girl-on-girl action gets me going,but why are some all-gay girls so uppitty towards me? I only ever make it with other bi-girls,so what's the problem?
2006-09-24 06:33:15 · 8 answers · asked by BellaDonna 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
David S. why the misunderstanding? Am i making a moral judgement about you? Why is it unacceptable to love both men and women? Each sex gives me something the other can't.
2006-09-24 08:05:33 · update #1
I doubt that its anything personal. Most lesbians have had their heart broken at least once by a bi gal so we tend to have a chip on our shoulder. I apologize for us but we are only human. Once they realize you only go with bi girls they will cheer up. ;o)
2006-09-24 06:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a lesbian, & I'll tell you from experience....I personally have nothing against Bi's, & have friends that are Bi...I just couldn't date one...Reason is -- I don't like the thought of a man's private part going into the woman I'm dating, & then I have to give her oral sex....If she doesn't have a BF or Hubby....It's still the thought that she's attracted to guys, & WOULD have sex with one...It also makes a lesbian feel as if she can't give the Bi girl all she needs, makes us feel like we can't satisfy you completely, because you want the 'real thing' from a guy...And not completely happy with what we have to offer...
2006-09-24 07:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by alindler83 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a common tendency among humans who feel picked on or oppressed to look for others on whom they feel they can safely vent, like parents who catch a lot a flack at work taking out their anger by abusing their children. A lot of gays see bis as a safe target that they can bash and revile as a way to feel better when straights bash and revile them. You see that constantly on this site in the way gays talk when the subject of bisexuality comes up. We'll all be a lot better off when we shed the labels and accept each other as who we are as individuals, not as stereotypes. Until then I fall back on a French philosopher, "I did not choose to be who or what I am, but since it is me, I will neither deny nor apologize for it."
2006-09-24 06:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 they think that a lot of bi women are confused twits and they don't no what they want and that they are going back to a man any way.And some just think its nasty to go back and 4th and by the way some women strap up and as i understand are better than most men.Rember a man only has one thing to play w/ boy a women have a lot more and u can straps to any size u want or any thing u what every night of the week ha ha ha lol lol.
2006-09-24 09:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being gay is not a choice it is the way you are. By you just switching up all the time you make it seem for the rest of the homo's like they choose to be gay and can turn this lil imaginary switch off. I mean honestly which turns you on more men or women? YOu will eventually have to make a choice. Bisexuality is an excuse for those afraid to come out!
2006-09-24 08:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they dont like to share across the gender
2006-09-24 06:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who care what they think, they are probably jealous cause your getting some from both sexes and they aren't getting any from anyone.
2006-09-24 06:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alindlier said it best...thats the way that I always say it
2006-09-24 18:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Candy Mamii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋