my friend is always talking about cutting her wrists and stuff all the time. her wrists look cutt every morning at school. her mom is going away for the weekend and so she's going to be alone.
I'M SCARED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 06:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her mother - or call the hospital. They will help her! She needs help NOW!
2006-09-24 06:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this with a friend years ago and this is what I told her. Go a head. But.....remember this: If you commit suicide your soul will be earth bound until all of the pain you caused is finished. You will have to watch and endure all of this pain and suffering that you have caused. Now if you think that that would be easy go ahead. By the way this is true. This is not made up. She will not go to hell. Her soul will remain earth bound until the pain is over. But you should also tell her mother. This girl needs help. After you talk to her mother, then this is her responsibility not yours. If she does do this after you have told your mother, please do not take of any quilt if this girl decides to do this anyways. I am a Spiritual Teacher and Counselor. Suicide is the most SELFish act there is.
God Bless you for being such a wonderful friend.
Good Luck
2006-09-24 13:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, call her constantly. Every hour on the hour, all night. E-mail her, text her, bug her to death! Taking your life is a really really really serious thing and she's your friend. It's your responibility right now to not let her do something as stupid as committing suicide. Talk to her parents about it. They live with her and can keep an eye on all this wrist-cutting stuff and get her help too! It sounds like she really needs to talk stuff out about the way she's acting. Good luck; this is not fun stuff...I really hope things turn out for the best!
2006-09-24 13:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience,most people who talk about committing suicide dont. Its the quiet ones who usually do. Chances are the marks on her wrists are not cut marks but are made to look like they are to get people to feel sorry for her. If youre not sure, contact the school nurse or teacher and let them take it from there. You can also contact her Mom without her around but be ready for repurcussions from that one. Its better that she be alive and pissed off at you then not here at all. Good luck.
2006-09-24 13:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get her some help, look it up on the net maybe. In the meantime whenever she mentions it talk her out of it. Target the reason she's talking of suicide and deal with it. Tell her how you think you'll cope without her. Remind her of all the good times she's had. Make her happy and express your concern. Notifiy her mum and yours.
2006-09-24 13:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Phantom Ice-Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL SOMEONE. Tell a teacher or someone who will be able to do something. tell your parents. tell anyone. another thing you could do is make a HUGE list of all the reason why your friend should live. remind her of all the things she'll miss out on in life. remind her that she's a good person. she needs help. DONT JUST SIT BACK AND DO NOTHING
2006-09-24 13:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by koukla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to spend the night with you and talk to your parents and they will talk to here parents. Don't leave her alone. Ask her why she wants to commit suicide. Tell her what she is going to miss out on and the aspects of life.
2006-09-24 13:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps telling her parents would help.she may get pissed then again she may welcome the intervention.if they go away and come home to find her hurt or worst, you will feel guilty for not having told someone.you will say you didn't think she was serious. speak up now and every time she talks of harming herself. maybe she needs attention from her parents and that should do it.
2006-09-24 13:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to talk to her mom? Her dad ?or your parents? or the suicide hot line?. Pick one then do it. Don't leave her alone. If she is telling you it's because she wants you to help her not to do it.
2006-09-24 13:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by miss moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her over to your house for a sleepover so you can keep an eye on her. i know how you feel you don't wanna lose your friend. while she's over there make her laugh, hint around that their are reasons to live. she will thank you in the years to come. if you don't help her, you would regret it if she ever (regretfully) succeeded.
2006-09-24 13:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by thee wojc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to be scared. just let her kno that you care for her. are you aware of WHY she wants to do this? and...are you sure it's not just for attention? how long have you been frends? anyways...if she's your true frend, she shouldnt have any reason not to be truthful with you and let you kno what is wrong with her. just have a sit down and ask her wat she wants to end her life for, she has you to live for right? and ask if she would stay with you, because you need her to be with you this week end. I hope everythings okay.
2006-09-24 13:52:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋