I have a friend who I somewhat have feelings towards. He says hes straight. But does not act like it at times. He will rub my shoulder often and pull away saying it was a joke. He tempted me to touch his rump once. Of coarse I resisted. Also we are both furries, and he wears his fox tail over to my living quarters. He then encourages me to play with it. He knows that i'm gay, and i'm getting mixed messages. I just wanted to know someone elses take on the situation. So straight or gay?
2006-09-24 06:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe he is interested in experimentation. Ask him. If not then you have lost nothing but if so, you may have found a mate. Perhaps you should ask him if he would like to kiss you first or touch you to see if he likes it. Put the power to stop or go in his hands.
2006-09-24 06:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may be playing with you since he knows you are gay, but only way to know for sure is to talk about it with him and even ask if he wants to try something
2006-09-24 16:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says he's straight then you have to treat him as straight, regardless of 'messages'. Still, that all sounds pretty suspicious so I say confront him. Just say "Dude, all this stuff you do is really giving me the gay vibe. Seriously, just f*ck me or cut it out."
2006-09-24 13:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are people who enjoy being a "tease". Stop showing interest and see how the situation progresses.
2006-09-24 13:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he prolly is confused or just likes getting you going.
I'm gay myself. I don't think i would do anything with him as far as try to figure it out. If he is. He'll let ya know when he's ready i guess.....
:)
2006-09-24 13:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by digitaldancer22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be curious. But it's wrong for him to test this out on you. Talk to him about it in a serious manner. Good luck.
2006-09-24 13:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by rauldp38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be toying with the idea. Give him time ... and if he is gay , you will find out in a good way, lol.
Good luck!
2006-09-24 13:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is testing the waters. Next time just reach out and grab him and kiss him. See how he responds.
2006-09-24 13:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just Bi-curious, try to let him know that you wont put his 'manhood' on risk by telling somebosy else.
2006-09-24 13:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Angelo C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-09-24 13:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋