I really need some advice on what to do. Because there has been this girl I have had a huge crush on at where I work for a while now. She about 18 but will be 19 soon and I am 24 and am still a virgin. I am not ugly or anything its just I have been saving my self for some one speciall. Any way it has just come to my attention that it has been really obvious about how I feel about her because my boos my co-workers even she nows how I feel and I have never even told her how I feel and now I feel really embarassed and nervous about the whole thing what should I do now please help.
2006-09-24 05:55:36 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her...what makes you hesitated?
2006-09-24 05:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you have been celibate. Chasity is not meant just for girls, its meant for all and in these days with all the diseases it is also smart. Ease into whatever you plan on doing with this girl take your time and see that what you want is what she wants in life, however not many at the age of 18 is really ready for the total commitment that a lasting relationship requires.
Divorce happens try to not let it happen to you. Enjoy this time, spend time together and Cherish the one on one, don't push things physically. Only you will know when it is right for you and if she is right for you she will be glad to take time. Do act on it by asking her on a date, that is the only way to know if it is real, if she is interested in you and not just a vivid imagination on your part. Good Luck.
2006-09-24 13:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kdid49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out to eat or something, she'll make it quite clear if she's not interested...although DON"T BE WEIRD! It's easy to let a potentially awk situation take it's course. It's up to you to relax and play it cool. If things go well, then it's smooth sailing...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-24 13:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Future Mrs. Beasley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know? If not, simply tell her. The worst thing she can do is shake it off. It will make things less embarassing at work.
2006-09-24 12:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by janelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to go out to dinner and to see a movie sometime. Get to know her and tell her how you feel. Good luck!
2006-09-24 13:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well next time that you see her you should tell her how you feel just in case they arent telling you the truth and if she feels the same way about you then u can ask her out on a date or you can do it how i do it and get someone else to ask her about the way she feels about you in case you're afraid to me embrassed
2006-09-24 12:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u may really love her. so that being said love has zero regrets and u should just move on--but with her. Dont be embarrassed, show her u like her, she will do it to i can almost gurantee, and ignore your boss and coworkers. THEY ARE JEALOUS. so just keep it cool, get confident, and began a fresh beautfiul relationship
2006-09-24 12:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and tell her how you feel. Both you and her will feel alot better if you do. Explain why you hadnt told her in the first place.
2006-09-24 12:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by somebody whispering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up; ask her out!! Still wait to have sex till you know she's the right one for you!!! You've waited this long, you can wait alittle longer!
2006-09-24 12:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and go to her and ask her out. When you go out let her know how you feel and sit back and see what happens
2006-09-24 12:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 her.get 2 know her.she'll realize that u like her!good luck!
2006-09-24 12:59:05 · answer #11 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋