what i want to do to have kids. I hope that someone can help my problem
2006-09-24 05:27:04 · 16 answers · asked by redbutterfly 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Reversal of your husbands vasectomy is worth a try although success rates vary depending on various factors such as the duration since vasectomy, presence of anti sperm antibodies and of course surgical expertise. Try and get hold of an experienced surgeon with the best success rates.
If things don't work out, you could consider alternatives like donor insemination and adoption.
Good luck!
2006-09-24 05:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Von Recklinghausen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband is not on board with having children (or more children if he already has a family).
If he had his vasectomy before you were married, and you wanted children, why did you marry him?
I don't believe in bringing new life into this world unless they are welcomed by both parents.
2006-09-24 05:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by toota956 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband, he had two kids and he had had a vasectomy. He kept telling me that he didnt want anymore kids. But the longer we were together, he changed his mind, he had it reversed. We had a son together, then it was ME that got fixed. One was enough for me...lol
Just keep working on him, tell him things like, Wouldnt it be nice to have a child that you and I created together? Think of things thatll make him think more about it.
2006-09-24 05:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomies can be reversed through an operation.
2006-09-24 05:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some vasectomies are reversable,is his? There's always adoption. You could be artificially unseminated by his borther?
2006-09-24 05:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by scott m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sperm bank? adoption? reverse the vasectomy? Whatever you try, make sure your husband also wants kids.
2006-09-24 05:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you looking for an outside donor or a solution? if he really is down for it he can have a reversile done on the vasectomy. they can do it but not sure about the sucess rate
2006-09-24 05:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-24 19:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, also, draw the sperm from his testicles. A vasectomy only ensures preventing pregnancy through sex. He can still bear children, just not through sex (unless you get the reversal).
2006-09-24 05:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Stewie Loves You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check in to adoption. And their are plenty of more procedures. Just make sure he really wants kids to.
2006-09-24 05:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋