I'm sorry for asking such question. but, letting loose of these tightly guarded taboo, might ease up some best kept secret to be revealed in form of white lies. you can answer discretely if you wish...
2006-09-24 05:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
please describe your feelings, thoughts and other things before, during and after the events.
2006-09-24 05:25:58 · update #1
yes, it was a BIG mistake. it seemed pleasurable first but then i tried to avoid my cousin after a few weeks. i made sure i was not present at family gatherings if he was there.and there was always the fear of whether he would tell it to his friends who would pass it to my parents. fortunately both of us were looking for sex and nothing more. frankly it was a HUGE BUNDER
2006-09-24 05:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by jeffrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not understand why close family are drawn to commit such acts but it has been an ongoing question that we knew was going to come up eventually after living together for the past five years while raising his daughter who calls me "mommy". We are both college educated adults who have had bad relationships and were drawn together out of necessity. Her mother walked out on her the day after she was born and gave up her rights as a parent and I was asked if I would take her place. Without hesitation I said "yes". As two consenting adults who have lived together nearly all of our lives I jumped at the chance to be a mother to her. He agreed to pay my bills as I agreed to raise his child as my own.
We are not overly affectionate to each other in public to keep things looking like a normal couple. Do I feel guilty about my decisions? Sometimes. There is a little person who has two parents that love her dearly and put her needs over theirs so I can't see where there is any harm done. I don't see why it is any more harmful trying to explain to a child why they have two daddies or two mommies. It does have more natural look to see a man and woman together with a child than a gay or lesbian couple.
2006-09-24 06:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by victoria w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down alright heres why i suggest this to you
it is more common than you think and most times many first sexual experience is with a family member and how this usually occures is that it is never mentioned in youngsters that this is not proper behavior and they explore in secret with one another and then this si kept quiet and never mentioned by any or those who learned on one another!
wht i am telling you is by the time they have been told they should do such a thing it is much to late and all beween the parties is forgotten!
and to prove this theory is learning and exploring sexually with a mainly a small cousin of your age opposite sex of course is due to exploring!
never its never said to cousins brother and sisters how to play just play!!
2006-09-24 06:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by wise 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I find the whole idea gross. However I do remember hearing about an adopted brother who fell in love with his sister, and then they found out he was the father's biological child with a mistress. The two were devistated.
My sister's friend married her step brother. The parents were so happy, but there's no blood being shared as it was a merged family.
2006-09-24 05:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I have walked in on my older brother laying the pipe to some girl when I was in my early teens. At the time I felt jealous of her so does that count?
2006-09-24 05:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - in the past, royal families wanted to produce heirs while not allowing new members gain royal status, so they either married royalty from other countries, or their own cousins...
2006-09-24 05:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by kchip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No can't say that i have ever even thought about sleeping with anyone in my family
2006-09-24 05:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh good lord. Jerry Springer on the web.
2006-09-24 05:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woody allen, not a blood relative, but still a pretty sick bastard
2006-09-24 05:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by Poppies_rule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha.....I don't even like most of my relatives....I can't imagine sleeping with any of them.
2006-09-24 05:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Canadian Ken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋