What is your opinion? Growing up in a beach area in South Carolina I could say that I grew up in a party enviroment. I hung out with the wrong crowd and got cought up in a dangerous lifestyle. I got out of it and got married and had two beautiful boys and found my purpose in life through them. Some of my old freinds are getting together for a "reunion" next week and I dont know what I should do? Will one night of fun and looking back on the old days really be that bad? Please, Brutal Honesty!
2006-09-24 05:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by bigredpoboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As long as your not going to come home drunk or high on drugs then yes you can go but if you feel that there will be temptation there tell the guys thanks but no thanks you moved on and you have a wonderful family that you are proud of and want to stay with them
2006-09-24 05:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, As a lady that has had demons and has lived in SC I would stay far away!! If you can smell it, see it and not want it than your strong enough to go. If your struggling with a fight, problem, bad day, anything that could set you back than grab hold of one of your sons and stay away! One night of fun is NOT worth the months it will take to undo...how far youve come. I KNOW. Good luck..
2006-09-24 12:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by oneIrishgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your old lifestyle could jeopardize your current life....I'd steer clear of the reunion.
It sounds like you've worked to get where you are, and it would be a shame for it to be influenced in a negative way, especially since you have children to set an example for.
2006-09-24 12:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and have a great time, your life is different now, and theirs is probably changed as well.
Enjoy the reunion and then come home and get on with your life.
Take your wife and have her as a support system if you need it.
Good luck
2006-09-24 12:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have fun...get a sitter for the wee ones,tell the wife to put some lipstick on...your going out! Have fun with the new wife and introduce her to some of your old friends....people change.I'm sure you won't be the only there that 'has grown up'......
2006-09-24 12:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youmiss those days, don't go, but if you just want to see old friends and compare the rewards you have now by getting out, then go for it.
2006-09-24 12:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how well you can handle the peer pressure to return to the old life style that you so proudly left behind and found a new life for yourself
2006-09-24 12:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NOT BAD UNLESS YOU HAVE ADDICTION ISSUES. IT COULD BE A BOOST TO SEE WERE YOU WERE AND HOW FAR YOU HAVE COME. IF YOUR LIKE ME 2 KIDS WIFE LIFE YOU WILL PROBABLY BE ONE OF THE FEW WITH AN INTACT FAMILY. NOT TO DETRACT FROM KID LESS PEOPLE BUT THEY MAKE YOU SUCCESSFULLY.
2006-09-24 12:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by jason m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are loving your life and dont want to chance it for one night of fun DO NOT GO! trust me you'll regret it
2006-09-24 12:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cool man
2006-09-24 12:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by chatax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋