Everytime my partner and i have an argument, he wont talk to me. We had yet another argument on Friday and we spoke yesterday and we seemed ok and made up after it and i came to my mums to stay while he went playing rugby. I havent heard from him since then and he isnt replying to my messages and im supposed to be going home tonight. I dont know what to do for the best!!
2006-09-24 05:05:22 · 12 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bin him! He obviously doesn't care about you as much as you care about him. You'll soon see how he feels about you when you tell him it's over. And he plays rugby.
2006-09-24 05:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by dannyboomer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Some people need a cooling off period before they can talk or be affectionate. Do you live together? If you are arguing all the time you need to step back from the relationship and see whats causing the problems. Maybe you should stay at your Mums longer - he might be taking you for granted - ignore him for a change.
good luck
2006-09-24 05:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are to possibilities.
1. He needs a cool down period ( healthy!)
2. He punishes you by ignoring you (un-healthy)
I think its pretty rough of me to identify the second possibility to you but you do need to look at how this relationship is going. Is it a partnership? Why I ask is if you arguing over issues of control, within the relationship then the whole situation is not healthy. Are you a partner or are you a pocession? I think if you can sort out this issue then the next steps will become obvious to you.
2006-09-24 05:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home tonight. He probably has the phone turned off since the match and is talking with the boys. You know how they love to replay the whole bloomin match. Just go home as usual all will be ok once you see him.x
2006-09-24 05:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Learner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you argue more than you actually have fun? If so, however hard it will be, you must walk away and start a life without him. Life is too short to be unhappy. No one would not keep in contact with someone they love. I am sorry, good luck
2006-09-24 05:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it yr house then go home. if u panter is anything like mine he won't answers texts or calls if he his with the boys.just come and see what happens. if he is playing rugby he won't have his phone on anyway.go home and when he comes home sit down and talk it sounds like u 2 need to listen to each other and find out whats going on in each others mind.so you won't argure so much. good luck.
2006-09-24 05:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by twinmum1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound to me like a mammy's boy but there again men always think they are rite if i was you i would sit down and talk to him without arguing and tell him he needs to grow up our kiss him good buy there is nothing worse than a sulky man
2006-09-24 06:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a prat you are going out with tell him to grow up and stop sulking or you will dump him .I have the name carol tattooed on my arm i can always add INA and you could go out with me!!!
2006-09-24 05:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go home wait for him to call you. he needs a lesson.
2006-09-24 05:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having more sex is the only option here
2006-09-24 05:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋