i was babysitting an 8th month old baby...and it's not like i've never been around babies before, it's just that this baby's never been around me. anyway, the whole night was good, until i had to put her to sleep. and then she went BIZERK! so while she was crying i just called the mom and said ,"Do you just want me to keep her awake until you get back? Or keep trying?" and what do ya know..she came home.
i told her it was just the sleeping part that was hard, but do ya think she'll ever want me to come back? i mean..would you want the babysitter to call you for help? does that show responsibility or "not ready for babies yet"?
i feel SO bad cuz' i probably ruined her dinner (or whatever she was doing). although she said she was about to go anyway. any thoughts?
2006-09-24 04:57:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you showed a great sense of responsibility by calling her when things got tough. The baby probably has a hard time getting to sleep anyways. Mom should have told you that.
You did right. I would call you back if it were me, and Im hecka protective.
2006-09-24 05:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a caring babysitter and I hope she's smart enough to call you back. I believe she came home because she knows there is a problem when the baby goes to sleep. I would call her and ask her if maybe you could go over one or two nights and watch what she does when she puts the baby to bed, maybe she has a routine and forgot to mention something she does, and the baby will get to know you better and most likely feel better is she sees you with the mother. You were responsible in calling her and letting her know there was problem you couldn't shake. Lots better than just letting the baby cry and cry, good for you, I would hire you, but my boys are all grown up now. So once again call her and ask to share some time with her and the baby at bedtime (no charge) get to know the routine and the baby and mom more. It will show a willingness to understand why the baby cried so hard and the mother will think highly of you for wanting to try again. Every job is hard when you start and baby sitting is one of the hardest. Good luck!
2006-09-24 12:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I had a babysitter for my baby who is 8 months also I would want her to call me if anything went wrong. She didn't really have to leave she could've walked you through it. Next time try this: When its time to put the baby down get a shirt or some type of clothing that the mother just took off something that still has her scent on it and put it under the baby to smell that way the baby will think there mommy is there, it works wonders for my fiance when he has to be with our little boy at nights.
2006-09-24 12:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies take practice. TRY to go visit some moms that have babies and hang out some. learn more about babies. I HAVE a friend that is a nurse. She had problems with the new Born's when she was working in the hospital. THE older nurses had to show her how to deal with the new Born's and the sick babies. There are tricks to learn. GOOD luck.
2006-09-24 12:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mom and a grandmother. You definitely did the right thing. If a child is having that much anxiety falling asleep, she's not going to rest well throught the night anyway. Stop worrying. You saved the mom a night of crying.
2006-09-24 12:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a three month old and he fights sleep. I'm sure the mother of the baby probably knew that you were going to have issues putting her to sleep... it usually happens regardless of who's putting her down. You probably afforded her the excuse she was looking for to leave the dinner party so I wouldn't worry too much.
2006-09-24 12:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm a 'Mr. Mom', but, I'm sure she wouldn't be too judgemental of you. I hardly ever let my kids be sat because I spend most of the time out thinking about them anyways. Let her know that your services are still available and that you are willing to continue working with her child until you and the child are comfortable with each other. Once you get to know the childs reactions at bed time (like maybe a bath, or rocking helps to relax her) it will be much easier on all of you.
2006-09-24 12:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pfitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. if the mother didn't want you to call her if you had problems then she would have not given you the number where she could be reached.Some babies just want mommy or daddy to put them to bed.they feel safer with their parents tucking them in at night.
2006-09-24 12:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by morningstar6707 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mom, i think you did the right thing. anytime i have had a babysitter im always thankfull if she has questions, to ask. it shows responsibilty. i dont think you ruined her evening, if anything you made her feel more secure.
2006-09-24 12:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better that you told her...shows you're a responsible sitter...i know I'd be madder if i came home and found my kid crying
2006-09-24 11:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by aReLy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋