I know this guy who was my friend last year and this year he was for a little bit.But all of a sudden he doesn't talk to me as much and sometimes just ignores me and I don't know why.Also the other day he just turned around and started at me for a couple of seconds I don't know if he doesn't want to be my friend or if he likes me. please help.
2006-09-24 04:34:09 · 16 answers · asked by Kayla T 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
p.s. I wrote him a note a couple weeks ago asking him if he was mad at me and he said no.
2006-09-24 04:56:13 · update #1
Either he's weird or he is doing these things on purpose to make you all confused and create attraction? Keep up your game lol!
2006-09-24 04:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by clevver17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with all above answers, but I have my own. I am in the same situation, but I am in the guy's shoes. The reason why I started ignoring my friend was because I started liking her but she doesn't like me back and then it go so hard that I just decided to start ignoring her cuz telling her about my feelings made no sense. She did confront me and I told her I liked her and now I am talking to her more because she is aware of my feelings...so i think this is what you should do. Go talk to him, ask him what's up, if he doesn't want to tell you then I am sorry to say you can't be friends with someone like him, well it's your choice. Good luck with whatever you do.
2006-09-24 11:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by russianguyfrombrooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think if you may have said anything about him to someone else that may have been taken the wrong way. If you can't think of a reason he could be mad at you, you should find a time when you can ask to talk to him alone. Ask him if you've done something to make him mad, and apologize if you think you should.
2006-09-24 11:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you have to leave him alone. Don't bring up the subject. Either he's into you or he's not. He won't figure it out if you bother him. Don't call, or write him notes, or ask his friends, or try to pressure him. Just be yourself, which is the hardest thing to be. There is nothing you can do that will make it better, but whatever you try will make it worse. It is sad that society works that way, but that is just the crappy way it is for women.
2006-09-24 11:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. I figured out that he was to shy to ask me out on a date, so he didn't talk to me as much as he did before. But i once brought up that topic and we had a long sincere conversation about this issue and now we're still dating. I had a feeling that he had flirted with me and we talked about it, so it's all good now. You should definitely ask him about this and belive me you won't regret it. Good luck:)
2006-09-24 11:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were friends with benefits that might be the problem, or maybe you both have changed and have other interests. just ask him what is going on, or you will never find out.
2006-09-24 11:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to him. Good friends are hard to find ... I've lost friends over misunderstandings that could have been fixed. So the sooner you talk to him the better.
2006-09-24 11:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple solution...walk up to him..and ask him what the deal is?! Tell him either let you know if you're friends or whether you should just say good bye...the only STUPID question is the one NOT asked...what's the worst he's gonna say?! ....we're NOT friends... ASK!!
2006-09-24 11:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him as he is now n keep on moving don look back n don wait anything from him n if one day he came n talked to u treat him as he did with u now
2006-09-24 11:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to him and talk to him that will clarify your doubts!
2006-09-24 11:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by saltamontes20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋