we had sex many times but after ejaculation his sperms used to come out of my vagina.I've been unable to concieve for more than a year.Why doesn't his semen remained in my vagina.Or is it normal.Please help me to concieve.Can I concieve even if his sperms flow out of my vagina?
2006-09-24 04:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by changsan s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
This is very normal. It's gravity at work. You could always try putting a pillow under your butt after he ejaculates inside you for a half hour (i think that's the time they told us to do) so that his semen can stay inside you better.
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2006-09-28 03:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen other comments that say put a pillow under your bottom and after sex, stay there for at least 30 minutes. When you get up and move around, the semen slides out because of gravity. If you both have not been tested, you should do that first to make sure there is no medical problem that might make it harder for you to get pregnant. He may have a low sperm count, in which case you might need to only have sex once a week, to give his body time to produce more sperm. Then when you have sex there will be more sperm when he ejaculates. The more sperm present, the more likely you may get pregnant.
This is something you will need to stay in close contact with your doctor and ask your questions to a professional. Even though some people may be giving you some good advice, we don't know you or your medical history like your doctor should.
2006-09-24 11:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Big mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there's a reason they call it "the wet patch" - some semen will always leak out after sex, but that won't stop you getting pregnant.
If you've been having regular unprotected sex for a year without getting pregnant, you need to see a Doctor to see what the problem is, you might just need a little help. Don't worry, there's plenty that can be done, it might be a simple problem.
In the mean time, keep having sex every few days, maybe build yourself a ramp out of pillows and, once you've had sex, lie there until the morning. Gravity will help more semen stay in there! But don't worry, its quite normal to have some semen come out of your vagina after sex. There's a reason why millions of sperm are in each ejaculation. And hey, if you could just stand up and let the semen flow out of you after sex we wouldn't need to worry about birth control!
Don't worry, try to relax, keep having sex but think of it as fun sex rather than baby making, and see a Doc in case you need a little help.
Good luck!
2006-09-24 11:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by caymanbabes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
I am sure some of the sperm is getting up there!! But, I have herd that if you lay on your back and lift your bottom (kinda like you are doing butt exercises) and hold it there for 5 min it will give the little guys some leeway!! Good luck
2006-09-24 11:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Summers G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay there for a while, but the sperm shoots up there w/in like 15 seconds... so what is coming out is probably dead sperm and other junk.
Ask your dr. about clomid...it helps you ovulate.
2006-09-24 16:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very common if you are really concerned why dont you raise your legs after sex to help the sperm go back in! or remain in
2006-09-24 11:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read somewhere that some woman actually use "INSTEADS" (which are a devices that are an alternative to tampons and pads) to use to keep the sperm from leaking out.... and it keeps it closer to your cervix. U can find them at Target in the Tampon aisle.
2006-09-25 00:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cyndi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal you are NOT the only person that goes through that! The key word with TTC is relax your nerves can keep you from getting that way try having sex every 2 days that might help you. BEST WISHES
2006-09-24 11:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The semen that leaked out is not needed believe me , a few connected.
2006-09-24 11:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by steak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS NORMAL! JUST REMEMBER IT ONLY TAKES ONE AND HE EJACULATES MILLIONS! I AM TRYING TO GET PREGNANT TOO MY DOCTOR SAID TO PUT A PILLOW UNDER YOUR HIPS WHILE YOU ARE HAVING SEX AND AFTER YOU ARE DONE DON'T JUST JUMP UP LAY THERE FOR AWHILE AT LEAST TEN MINUTES.GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE IT HAPPENS SOON FOR YOU GUYS! JUST REMEMBER TO RELAX THAT HELPS AND HAVE A LITTLE FUN MAKING THAT BABY!
2006-09-24 11:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋