Alrighty, I have been going out with this guy for a little more than 6 months. Let's call him Bob. Well, I love Bob A LOT! But sometimes I feel as if he is loosing intrest in me. For example, he works ALL THE TIME!! And anyday he has off what does he do but go work with his dad, or go to a family members house, or chill with his friends. We don't have any time to spend together. I brought up this issue to him and he acted as if it wasnt a big deal. I feel as if we are drifting apart. Like, we dont talk anymore, like we used to. Anytime I call him he is usually sleeping, cuz he worked a long shift, or I am busy doing homework and dont bother calling him until late. When I brought up this issue to him he stayed quiet. He didnt have anything to say. I wouldve done it in person..but when is the time!? During school we don't have any classes 2gether, and after school he goes straight to work.We dont spend a lot of time 2gether basically, i feel as if we are drifting apart.
2006-09-24 03:54:24 · 11 answers · asked by latin_lover585 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know what you should do!!! BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM. if he doesnt have anytime for you at all why would you even date him??? Life is too short to be waiting around for someone who could care less what you think or feel. Move on to someone who is really interested on you. Dont settle for what you are dealing with now.
2006-09-24 03:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't possibly know enough about your situation to give you any good advice, but I will say that I've never seen a willingness to work as a reason to fault a person. If you were to end up starting a family with this guy, you'd count on him being a hard worker and good provider, right?
Just a thought.
Good luck and have a great day!
2006-09-24 11:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by straightandstalwart141 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation as u. He doesnt and isnt interested in you, so u should move on. U r young, and there r plenty of men ((((somewhere)))) that will treat u right and talk to you. Your time will come. Even though I am 42 and I still havent found the right man. Oh well. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 11:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bandice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 6 months and this is happening let him go. Move on. He has more important things on his mind and you are it. Honey you need to move on. It sound like you 2 are young and life is to short to spend alot of time dealing with this. In my opionion this is not the one that you need to b planning on spending the rest of your life with. He wants to do other things and spending time with you is not what he wants. There is someone out there that will want to spend time with you but as long as you are rolled up in this one he will not find you. MOVE ON!!!!!!
2006-09-24 11:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all say move on but it's easier said than done. Sometimes a person even has someone who will treat them very good, but they can't seem to fall in love with that person. We can't choose who we fall in love with. But, what advice can I give you? I can't. It makes sense to move on I guess. Try to at least. Just keep reminding yourself how you are wasting your time, cause I guess you are. I hope you can forget him soon. Good luck.
2006-09-24 11:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think. If this is what it's like after 6 months, what is it going to be like in 2 years?
2006-09-24 10:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are, and if he refuses to communicate to you about this problem, then he is wasting your time. You need to find someone that has time for you and can be there for you. So you can tell him that if he doesn't get his act together then your done, but I wouldn't suggest it...it could just cause conflicts.
2006-09-24 10:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Azena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your question and problems, if you are still in school then you don't need a serious relationship anyway.
Be friends and let it go at that
2006-09-24 10:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not into you like you are him , move on. Trust me there are much bigger & better fish in the sea.
2006-09-24 11:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by lovemyturk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is casual, not serious about you.
2006-09-24 10:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋