i worry about my cousin, he is 36 years old and has never married or settled down. he's a good looking guy and gets lots of ladies after him. he is kind of a player. will he ever fall in love? how do guys like this avoid love? what is it gonna take?
2006-09-24 03:13:38 · 13 answers · asked by srsgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And then what?
More important than love is what he is contributing the the world. We are taught that children are our contribution, and thus; marriage, love, settling down all become some kind of measuring stick for normalcy.
Maybe he's got more important stuff to do.
2006-09-24 03:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i got married my first time at 32 and then divorced 5 years later. Got married my second time at 40 and probably will divorced in another year. I am 4 and i have found it is better to play than be married. Most of the time it is better to stay that way. He likes the way things are and you should not worry about him. Being married is not always the answer for everyone. He will fal in love when the right girl catches his eye just right.
2006-09-24 03:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 36 is actually still young. My cousin Don is 37 and he isnt married and he has no children, and has no plans for either one! Its a personal thing. If they arent looking for it and have no plans for it then thats them. Maybe one day he will find someone who he loves very much, he could be 50 by then, but 50 is the new 20s (or so i have heard from my mother! LOL) When he is ready it will happen.
2006-09-24 03:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might when he gets older like me. I don't know how to say this with out sounding conceded, but a good looking guy gets use to having his choice of women, and the experiences of many different affairs. When time does take its toll, then look back and see the mistakes they made, the wonderful people they discarded, and have some regret.
I am so lucky that I have a life long friend who loved me through all my changes. I hope he does too!
2006-09-24 03:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked him about it? Most guys get over the player thing in their mid or late 20's. He either hasn't gotten over it or is scared of getting close to a woman. Maybe he needs someone like you to help him change his mind about females so he can go out and find the right one.
2006-09-24 03:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men just don't want to settle down with one person. they like to play the field for as long as they can. my boyfriend is 39, never been married, and never will.
2006-09-24 03:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by snicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY 4 him. SOME MEN like the freedom. YOU know as long as he supports his self, he may just enjoy his freedom.BUT YOU CAN PRAY G-d sends him a great lady .
2006-09-24 03:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he will not , at least as long as things are going his way, and you are just stressing your self out over something that is totally out of your control
2006-09-24 03:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do about it, it's on him what he want everybody not meant for marriage. it's strange that your asking questions for him.. Don't' commit incest.. don't worry if it's meant for him to settle down he will....
2006-09-24 03:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS THAT WAY AND I DON'T THINK HE WILL CHANGE MAYBE HE DOES NOT WANT TO GET MARRIED AND MAYBE THAT IS GOOD BECAUSE IF HE MARRIAGE HE WILL BE WITH OTHER GIRLS WHILE MARRIED AND THAT IS NOT GOOD FOR BOTH OF THEM
2006-09-24 03:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by juanita2_2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋