my best friend broke up with her bf abt a 6 months ago. he is one of my best friends too but he was sort of cheating on her with another girl in our group of friends. we all knew abt it but none of us wanted to accept it. he broke up wit my best friend and less than a month later he got together with this other girl. the weirdest thing is that most of our group shunned my friend instead of the other girl (but that is probably becuz she's slept with half the guys in the group). Today, he called me and gave me the most shocking news- the "other" girl is pregnant! its been less than 7 months and he's already gotten her pregnant. they arent married but they are going to keep the baby and next week, at her bday dinner, they are going to announce it! my best friend (his ex) is also going to be at this dinner!! shud i warn her earlier?
2006-09-24 03:07:52 · 16 answers · asked by hunny_kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u should reveal this news before so that she can prepare herself for that shock...
n it will be wrong to hide this from her as she is ur her best friend thats what i think..
so good luck
2006-09-24 03:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should tell her. It isn't going to be an easy thing for her to hear but if it were me I would really want to know. She at least has time to prepare her reaction (not burst out crying) if not skip the dinner all together. It sounds like most of your friends have written her off and don't care how this will hurt her. You would be a true friend telling her.
2006-09-24 10:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not tell her the whole details before the her ex announce it. What you can do is to prepare her of what she might hear from the party. Probably she is aware of the relationship of her ex and one of your friends right? So I think if she havent recovered from their past relationship, knowing that her ex and the third party will be there, she would not attend.
Also, you said that her ex is also your friend. Try to ask him to talk to your friend about it before he invites her to the occassion.
2006-09-24 10:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by cutiegreyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ex-boyfriend is extremely insensitive and should be beaten.
But on a serious note :)..... tell the ex-boyfriend that his actions are going to be hurtful and that either he or you should talk to her before this comes out to the rest of the group. Give him the opportunity to step up and do the dirty deed himself.
2006-09-24 10:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of sounds like a pretty tight group of people...maybe she already knows. If it were me, I would tell her. You did say that she has slept with half the guys in this group, so it sounds like she's no angel herself.
2006-09-24 10:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jody B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if you want her to kill the next girl i would but leave it alone let her find out just tell her to expect anything or convince her not to go to the party.
2006-09-24 10:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by lincdrum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you want to see her have a nervous breakdown in the middle of the bday dinner . . I would tell her earlier . . if you're really her friend, you should warn her . ..
2006-09-24 10:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have done to little way too late. It is not this girls problem anymore, so why are you trying to warn her. She will be grateful that she is rid of the louse
2006-09-24 10:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were my friend i would tell her. if u don't and she finds out later that u knew from the begining she might end up made at you as well.
2006-09-24 10:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by lynn_white18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her. also gether to bring a date to the party, that way it will kind of take her mind off him. hopefully anyway. dirty pig of a man isnt he?
2006-09-24 10:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋