how do you feel if everyone around who say that they don't plan to get pregnant but soon as they got married all of them got pregnant and you, who hope to get pregnant didn't and it's going to be a year already?
2006-09-24 03:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by sassy girl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wouldn't feel angry, because it's very unhealthy to only see things from one perspective. To think unhealthy and useless thoughts will only make it harder to become pregnant. Try to think hopeful things, pleasant things, and not be angry.
2006-09-24 03:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent 12 years trying to get pregnant and 2 years on fertility treatments. So one year of hoping to get pregnant is nothing compared to being told you will never get pregnant and have children after all that.
Fortunately only to get knocked up @ 36!! 2 doctors misdiagnosed me. I had one more test to confirm diagnosis before deciding on a hysterectomy. Thank goodness I was procrastinating on having that done.
Depending on your age, under 30, the doctors won't stress until after 2 years of unprotected sex and no conception. The older you are the sooner they will start testing and making suggestions on treatments.
2006-09-24 10:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic or fret...this won't help you. You should first start by having your husband's sperm count checked. After this, try containing most of your sexual activity when your body is most fertile. But if you've only been married a year, why are you in such a rush? Learn your married life, learn your husband...enjoy the intimacy you have now. Once a child enters into the fray, both of your lives will change dramatically.
2006-09-24 10:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer "how you feel" but from reading your thoughts, it appears that you're sad, frustrated, and maybe a little angry at those who have seemed to get something that you wanted all along.
My best advice to you is to find out (medically) if there's anything not working for you and your partner. Eliminate the physical issues related to getting pregnant and then take it from there.
2006-09-24 10:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel that it's great for them! I tried for a year and a half--it was hard but I managed! Feeling a little resentment? I'm sorry--but thank God for the children He has given to your friends. You'll have your time soon!
2006-09-24 10:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stress about it so much . . . be happy for your friends . . . and don't try so hard . . . when my fiance and I were "trying" to get pregnant, it never happened . . but as soon as we said "forget it" and just let things happen, that's when I got pregnant . . . when the time is right, it will happen . . . just don't try to force it .. .
2006-09-24 10:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts, i know. sometimes things like this just happen in life and there is nothing that you can do about it. just think, when you actually do get pregnant, it will be that much sweeter because you had to wait.
2006-09-24 11:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel more than a trick on you, simplicity of you :))
2006-09-24 10:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by First♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES TAKE IT AS IT COMES EVENTUALLY YOU WILL HAVE YOUR BABY ENJOY YOURSELVES ONE THE BABY COMES YOU WILL BE ALL INTO THE BABY SO ENJOY IT AS MUSH AS POSSIBLE
2006-09-24 10:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by juanita2_2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray.
2006-09-24 10:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋