Idea of Man crossdressing be gay? Stupid isn't it?

Question

I notice men are often called gay just because they crossdress. I don't agree with that perception.. such a view is retarded to believe some clothing makes one gay. If men in dress are called gay.. how come women in slacks aren't called that? Let people wear what they want whatever makes them comfortable. If a man wants to
wear a skirt or dress I don't consider him gay. If he puts on fake boobs he wants to be a woman so he still isn't gay. Let a person wear what ever they want. I wish all
jerks would loose there power of speech permanently! Don't you? If man crossdressing does make gay please explain it... the idea don't make a hill of beans of sense to me. Only idiots or jerks
with no brains would believe in such ideas.
They're IQ is obviously way below 72
(on IQ chart 72 is retard level normal is 108
higher is above normal)
Unfortunately the Jerks are enormously repetitive in their stupid opinions & they get
other jerks to believe their opinions

I only insult those that insult others. " Do Unto Others as they Do Unto You." As for bras and high heels being uncomfortable I totally disagree. Sure it's difficult to run in high heels but I find them easier to walk in than regular shoes
which are so cluncky except for Hush Puppies. Bras are comfortable if you are wear the right size. Slacks or Pants never fit right for me they are horrendously uncomfortable. If I find things this way I bet some men would too! I suspect men that crossdress might just be looking for comfort and if
they find it in woman's clothing so what?
It don't make them gay. I've noticed single male never allow anyone into his bedroom yet just cause he crossdresses he's accused of gay.
If you think you're being insulted by
my question you must think of yourself
as a jerk but I only insult the putdowners
that accuse others of gay. The insulters
have the low intelligent not the others.

Oh by the way pantyhose is far more comfortable than long johns. Long johns
itch like hell. I don't see any discomfort in womans clothes except if you try to wear sizes too small for you.. some women tend to do that so they think womens clothes uncomfortable.

Who say's slacks unisex? How'd that get to be if so? Because for some odd reason women are allowed to wear pants. Someone probably complained to the fashion designers that mens pants weren't right so the fashion designers created slacks. Lots of women do wear mens pants. Maybe they want to be Man. See how silly that's sounds? so why say Man wearing skirt want to be a woman? I think what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Way back in history men did wear dresses.
Some fool invented pants. If they weren't invented then there'd not be such ignorancy!

Answer 1

I totally agree with you. A man is not gay just because he wants to wear women clothes. And anyone who believes they are have no brains. Thanks for you view point it's great knowing there is openmined people still around, who are not afraid to speak their minds.

Answer 2

Ok, no matter what you're wearing you appear to have some anger issues...

Obviously, a man in a dress isn't necessarily gay, just a little aberrant. Women wearing "slacks" isn't a good comparison since pants are unisex. Besides pants are more comfortable than a dress. A man who wants to look like a woman & wear clothes that, if we're being honest are uncomfortable (dress, heels, pantihose, I mean come on!) either wishes he were a woman or has some other issues. So perhaps he is a transsexual in training? A woman trapped in a man's body, trying to make the best of it?... If we are to take this further, a man who wants to be a woman might want to sleep with other men, n'est pas? So, this could be how they might earn the label "gay" since men that sleep with other men are usually referred to in this manner. Just a thought...

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. You don't have to like or agree with every opinion naturally. It could be that crossdressing strikes people as unusual & they're not sure how to take it.

I watched Ed Wood's Glen or Glenda & I just found it funny/strange. It's bizarre to me that a man would want to look like a woman & be married to a woman. But apparently it's a phenomenon (among cheesy filmmakers etc) So maybe such a man is a lesbian?... I suppose it's just a fetish for female clothing. Actually, men's clothes are pretty boring so I guess I couldn't blame a guy for wanting to try some of our skirts & dresses for a change...

Bottom line is, wear whatever you like but be prepared for people to be confused if it doesn't fit in with their idea of the norm for your sex.

Pardon my ignorance as I'm a girl who likes to dress like a girl and don't really understand straight men (or even gay men for that matter) wanting to look like women. Though my IQ was at 143 last time I was tested.

Answer 3

Thank you. I'd never really thought about this question. You're right, Women wearing pants aren't thought of as gay, why would men wearing a dress? Point taken, though I don't appreciate the reference to my intelligence.

Answer 4

People who try to guess who goes in with someone when they go into their bedroom and close the door are being rude and intrusive on another person's privacy, and deserve to be gently corrected. In your own language, the line is, "Come on, guys, it just isn't any of your business who he sleeps with. Let him alone." But your estimate of their IQ and such emotional reactions is just going to escalate the war. So name-calling is, to say the least, giving in to your frustrations and not making wisdom and peace and good manners prevail, as a noble gentleman must do if he is to win fair whatever he seeks -- generally assumed to be fair lady, but the point in fact was it ain't nobody's business.