help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

HELP!! im 11 years old n i think i might be pregnant.
im really scared and how will i tell my mum.
i still havn't took the test yet but i cant go and ask for a test at my age!
PLEASE HELP.

Answer 1

wellllllllll hooooooow STUPID!
its your mother here! OMG how could you do this to me?

Answer 2

breath, take a deap breath

ask a older friend if they will get one for you and talk to the person you had sex with how old is he?
if he doesnt want to know then talk to your mum but be sure you are pregnant before getting in lots of bother for a late or 'funny' period your mum will be cross but she can either bring you and the baby up u could have an abortion or you could live with someone else?!?

either that or dont tell her and just eat live a pig tell your doctor and always wear a bubble coat untill you give birth to it then have it adopted.(this is not an option)
ive had this happen to me but i was 13 but dont have sex again if you are not pregnant untill YOU r ready and have found the right person!!!

good luck hunny
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im here for you no mater what

n egnor every1 else who is saying stuff like reatard and OMFG there freaks

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cry and the world cries too

keep your chin up chick
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Answer 3

Go to your mother and tell her that you have unprotected sex and that you fear that you may be pregnant.
If you can't go to your mother right now then go to your local store and get a pregnancy test to find out if you are pregnant, you can buy a pregnancy test no matter what age you are. Did you miss your period? It is best to take the test after you have missed your period by at least three days.
At eleven you really need to stop having sex, if your not already pregnant you will be if you don't stop having sex now. And condoms and birthcontrol don't always work. I know because I got pregnant while using birth control.

Answer 4

Oh dear :(

You need to get someone to get a test for you and do it as soon as possible. If it turns out to be positive you will have to tell your family. Of course they will be shocked, angry and horrified because of your age but unfortunately if you think you are old enough to be having sex you are old enough to take the consequences of that.

I really hope this is a 'scare' for you...that you aren't pregnant and also that it has terrified you enough to make you think twice before having sex again. I don't know where you live but whoever had sex with you was committing a criminal offence. There is a reason why laws like this exist....think about it?

Good luck.

Answer 5

You must tell your mum or a close adult who can break the news to her for you. You need to act sooner rather than later as 11 is really young and your body isn't really ready to cope with this and you will need all the support you can get.
You don't need a grown up to buy a pregnancy test for you, you can get one at the supermarket. Say its for your big sister if asked.
You do know the boy in question will have to be reported to the police and next time pay attention in sex ed

Answer 6

You know you can't get pregnant by holding hands, right? Because that's about all you should be doing at your age. Chances are that you are not pregnant, but if you're sexually active you need to tell your mom. It will be hard and she will be dissapointed, but you need to take care of yourself. Keep having sex from age 11, you can count on having 3 kids by the time you're 16. Learn from this experience and scare. Change your life around. If you're having sex with someone older than you, I'd bring that up with your mom too.

Answer 7

The last thing you need is to be lectured by people who don't even know you! I can understand you must be completely petrified. If you want to buy a test in private you could try over ebay. They're quite cheap aswell. Make sure you only test when you've definitely missed a period otherwise it may give you a false result. As for telling your mum, I can't imagine she'll be very happy, but if she loves you she'll support you. It's best to tell her as soon as possible as leaving it will only make her angrier for waiting.

Answer 8

First why are you having sex at 11? Please stop, you have all your life to have sex! You need to concentrate on being a little girl. Have you even had your period yet? If you havent had your period then you cant be pregnant. And if you have, then you should really tell your mother no matter how scared you are. Trust me tell your mother! She can take you to go get a test, and get on birth control so this doesnt happen. And again STOP HAVING SEX!

Answer 9

you idiot! well cant you just buy a pregnancy test over the counter at the pharmacy? if not and you still dont want to tell your mum then confide in an older friend and get them to buy the test from the pharmacy. but you will have to tell your parents anyways if you are pregnant so you mite as well tell them now.
and next time you decide your grown up and mature enough to have sex - USE A CONDOM!!

Answer 10

First of all ure 11 u should not b having sex or even thinking about it. If this is a serious question tell ur mum the truth its the only way to do it.

Answer 11

Poor baby, because that's what you are.
Okay if the deed is done you need to act fast.

Speak to a school counsellor, they will be able to advise you and even help with speaking to your parent/s.

Your parent/s will need to know as you need support, now and later.
This is not something you can face alone.

Don't think the worst, but you have to find out for sure.
It you've only had sex the once (I'm hoping this is the case) it's quite likely you're not even pregnant.
I will hope for the best for you.