I got married 8 months back. We are regularly trying every month for pregnancy. But it is not materialising.?

Question

Can any one advice. We did intercourse from 10 to 20 days. Whether i should go for just counselling or need to undergo tests. I am 24 years old and my husband is 32 years old. I want best advice pls.

Answer 1

Best advice.....relax and enjoy sex and stop trying so hard to do it right. It'll happen when it happens. Stop worrying and causing yourself so much stress.'

Answer 2

Trust me on this one, quit worrying about it so much, this causes stress which can just stress you ot even more about the whole thing. Just go along with life without thinking every time you have sex, "I need a baby!!!" "I need a baby!" "I need a baby...now!!!" It will happen if it is going to, and soon enough. If after maybe a year it still doesn't happen, then go for tests. I was so irritated when I couldn't get pregnant, I was very impatient, and then one day I just was like, well, I guess sometimes it will happen, and I giot pregnant right away. Also, quit doing it sooo much. Just mellow out for a while and see what happens. Good luck.

Answer 3

When you say intercourse from 10 to 20 days, does that mean you had sex 10 to 20x a month or 10 to 20 days in your cycle? Most couples take 6 months to a year before successfully conceiving. If it hasn't happend in that time frame, definatley see if you can see a specialist to see if there's a reason. Otherwise, that baby will make an appearance in his own time! Good luck!

Answer 4

enjoy your time together as newlyweds once you get pregnant your relationship will change in some way and you will be glab you had your time together. You are still very young and have time. I am a mother of three and do have some experience on the subject. kids are a joy and a blessing however pregnancy and infants take its toll on a relationship at times. you will have more luck if you just enjoy your marriage and give it some time. pregnancy can happen when you least expect it. Have fun and good luck.

Answer 5

is his sperm white or clear/white. if it's a clear/white ask him to get his count checked. Mine was low and my first wife never got pregnant. Of course timing is everything too and if you are only having sex on certain days or certain times of the month that will not help.

I started exercising more and started drinking beer again and my count went up a lot. Got remarried and had sex every day until she was pregnant. now I have a daughter.

Answer 6

my friend was having the same problems, trying, trying, it was really wearing her down hard.. we all told her to relax and it was going to happen when it happens.
the Dr's told her to try for almost a year and then go see her again. she did that, went to see the Dr's, her husband tested first for low sperm count since its the easiest way to start. he was fine, she then started to go through the process herself, wont go to details, but she was not happy. she then decided to stop going trough the testing cause she was not comfortable and for her it was beginning to be a bad experience due to lack of communication between the Dr and the hospital.. she decided to stop trying and concentrate on her career.
2 months later shes pregnant. she was stressing herself so much for trying to get pregnant. her drs had told her to relax, but i guess its hard under those circumstances. but when she gave up, surprise, surprise.
this migth not help alot, but i wish you luck...and relax.
:-)

Answer 7

First off stop stressing over this.The stress will not help you get pregnant.You need to relax and enjoy sex.It will happen on its on.

Answer 8

Whoa girl, just give it time.
It may take a while if you've previously been taking the pill.
Don't be too concerned yet.

Answer 9

No one can advice. They can, however, advise. Try with the milkman.