do you think its okey to cheat on your bf or gf if its for revenge, why / why not?
my friend did that, and i just wanna hear ur opinion on the matter.
2006-09-24 02:40:59 · 40 answers · asked by Ice-girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, it's not. Cheating is very wrong.
2006-09-24 02:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that retaliation is the worst thing to do as a person af some integrity. Do not stoop so low as to cheat on ur bf just because he did asimilar thing to hurt you. You could end up ruining everything. Just give him a chance to explain himself and a second chance too. After all everyone deserves a second chance. If he doesn't change you can go ahead and break up with him coz you deserve better than that.
2006-09-24 02:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by tyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not right all you are doing is causing more hurt. What satisfaction do you get out of revenge, you will be much happier to forgive and carry on with your life and in that way show that you are a stronger and better person then them.
2006-09-24 02:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by liongirl_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no! If you are in a relationship that is bad enough to do that leave it first! If she is for revenge she must not love the person anyway. If she is hurt and wants to work things out, well that would be just more fule for the fire and staying in a relationship with no trust prob. wouldnt work out.
2006-09-24 02:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by bermie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion...no. If my partner cheats on me..he is out the door, period.. That would be my revenge. I am not going to "lower myself" to his standards. I have a lot more respect for myself than that.
2006-09-24 02:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's up to the individual... to act as they see fit.
I don't personally BELIEVE in revenge... because, it typically involves doing something to someone else that you didn't like done to you... and thus the cycle continues.
However, I don't know what was done and how badly your friend was injured by it... and therefore WHO AM I to advise much less dictate a course of action.
2006-09-24 02:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! That's just harsh. It could make someone hate another person for life. They might be very sensitive. and it's not fair to the person your not seeking revenge on but you are dating as well. It's just not the way to solve a problem.
2006-09-24 03:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge will never do you any good,you will look cheap just like your partner who cheats on you, split-up with him instead why bother to cheat?find yourself a decent person a much better partner than you have right now,and show it to your cheating boyfriend that you are a lot more happier with your new man than before.
2006-09-24 02:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not a reason to have relations with anyone. Have you never heard "two wrongs dont make a right"?
2006-09-24 02:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its ok...it just means your sinking just as low as your bf/gf did when they cheated on you. Doing it back really doesn't solve anything, the only thing it could possibly do is make things worse.
2006-09-24 02:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just makes you as bad as the person you're trying to get revenge on.
2006-09-24 02:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋