love at first sight but she is not believing me more over avoiding me if i try to contact her & try to prove her that i truely love her..what to do?her family decided to engage her with her brother-in-law..as quick as possible...untill now she has never seen me....
2006-09-24 02:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by mehaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hate to have to tell you this, but sometimes true love is simply not reciprocated. you have to ask yourself...do you really love her (she's never seen you so how well can you know her?) or is it just that you really feel her? it is very easy when you are young to confuse love with lust. try your hardest to let her know that your feelings are genuine and true...and then take whatever happens in stride. if she is already engaged to her brother in law, that alone shoudn't stop you from pursuing true love...engagements can be broken...but you can't make her feel something if she doesn't already feel it. I suggest you examine your own feelings first to be sure it isn't just lust and save your own heart from pain. if she feels something for you, she will respond to your overtures. if not, you have to realize it may just not be something that is meant to be. good luck.
2006-09-24 02:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is most probably a lost case. Putting the thought out of your mind would be a wise idea. Forget her and find someone else to love.
But if it is that girl only that you want at any cost, first make yourself be seen and have her spend some time with you. That way she will be able to understand you and your love for her.
As she is avoiding contact and all your advances and is already engaged to another man, it is quite clear that you have failed to interest her sufficiently. So, that line of action wouldn't work. You would do better to let her go her own way and lead a happy and peaceful married life, instead of being a party spoiler.
Don't borrow ideas from silly Bollywood potboilers and go overboard and do something rash and stupid in the process. That would hurt you more - mentally and maybe physically.
2006-09-24 04:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you have love at first sight then check out that is not attraction.
If not than u have a true love so ur problem can be solved only by speaking not only boldly with her but with understanding. First try to fix meetings through any of source then explain your situation as story to her, wisely get her answer and according to answer tell her your hearts wish. See you have one chance since she is getting married, Be quick not necessary to follow my trick but follow your hearts decesion.
GO MAN BEST OF LUCKS....
2006-09-24 03:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dhr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be from a country with arranged marriages. How can you be in love with someone you have never seen.You said it ,she is avoiding you because she wishes to follow her parents wishes & marry her brother-in-law ( although I do not agree with that). Just look for some one else but if you live in a land that does arranged marriages you have no say. Good luck.
2006-09-24 02:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe in love at first sight..and believe me we would all like to know the answer to that question, how to succeed in love...if we all knew this answer, there would be less divorce rates and more people staying together, so when you figure this answer let me know maybe i can follow some examples..
2006-09-24 02:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One basic rule is all i can give you,
If you want to succeed in love always believe that u will, and keep trying with all you heart, and love will be urs one day.
2006-09-24 07:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How SAD! hmm.....Try every thing possible to let her now how you feel and Who you truly are. Personally,If someone Told me they loved me but I didn't know em' that well It would be kinda scary. like they were some kinda stalker....
2006-09-24 02:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her,if she don't believe that you really love her,do you need such relationships?The world is so big and there are so many normal and cool girls without prejudice!:)
2006-09-24 02:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as a butterfly and seek another beautifull flower, god creates so many of them, baya !
2006-09-24 03:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anacronic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trap some...some fly away.....that is the life of us men hunting for cunts
2006-09-24 02:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋