2006-09-24 02:26:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't Do anything. If he misses you and realizes he made a mistake he will be back. If he doesn't come around in a week or two it is what he wanted and trying to get him back will just look desperate and stupid.
2006-09-24 02:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen don't let him see you sweat girl!! Guy hate to see a women weak it is ok to cry and tell him how you feel but that is it, I know it is hard and you are hurt and you feel like you lost you life and don't know where to go from here. I have been hurt and left and I was in a relationship for 6 years I really loved him and I cried and cried and call him and everything stupit thing in the book! But as soon as I stop sweating him and looked to myself and found out that I can make me happy before anyone else can, I started getting into myself more and more and guess what he was back at my door saying how he missed me and it was a mistake and all this other ****, So of course yeah I took him back but after awhile I found out that he was with someone else sexually and i could not even stand to look at him so I let him go and now he is calling me and coming over and sweating me all the time he even cried, I know I am going on and on but I hate to see a young women hurt by men and they do it all the time it is time for you to love yourself and I bet he will see you in a new light! Please don't get to depressed and sad, time will ease your pain and if it is not meant to be then let it go! You will get alot of advice and I am never one to say leave your man alone because I know that it to hard to do! Just try to think of yourself and how special you are! Good luck mama and I know you will make it through
2006-09-24 02:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by ttbird117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-06 17:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 27⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and forget about him. If he left you then he doesn't want to be with you. Why would you want to be with him again so, he will leave you again and hurt you again.
I won't call him or anything. If he truly loves you then he will come back to you. But I won't just sit around and wait on him. Go out and try to find someone new. There is always someone out there that will better for you. I wish you all the luck.
2006-09-24 02:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Do not listen to the fools telling you to cheat. That is BS. As a guy in a relationship with a girl ive loved for the past 2 years, and a guy who is leaving in 9 days for basic training, I can tell you I know how your feeling. Its hard knowing you wont be seeing the person youve spent all this time with for weeks. Its hard wondering if theyll still feel the same way when you see them again. Its hard hoping THEY WONT FIND SOMEONE ELSE while your gone >:-/ (im sorry but the cheating answers are ridiculous). Everything will be hard.... but it wont be hard forever. Thats what you have to realize. Sure these next few weeks will suck. You just have to not let it bother you. Easier said than done I know, but thats what you need to do. Surround yourself with friends and family, ive heard its especially comforting to have other women friends who have men in the service because its a common thing, you all know how the others feel and what theyre going through. If you have hobbies, do them more often. it will get easier with time. But when you get those letters, pour your heart into them. He will be having a hard time not seeing his family, getting PT'd into the ground, hell be tired, sore, hurting, but when he gets those letters back from you itll give him comfort to know your still there and your still loving him and your still waiting. Sorry for the long post, but I know what your feeling :P Just dont worry, youll make it through :) and youll see him soon.
2016-04-13 00:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 27⤊ 0⤋
the reason makes a big difference... if he left you very bad, then forget about him...this kind of guys do not deserve... but if he really is a sweet guy and a very nice one, precious person, better make him want to get you, ask you back and be pathetic... guys are so tuff and stuff, and they think they r the best in the world sometimes... guys hate ignorance.. when he'll see that you don't even say hi to him, look at him and always ignore him, hang out with other guys, he'll want to show you that the only guy u need is him and only him... this will work guaranteed... i can assure u that... ignore, change, show that u r more better without him.
2006-09-24 02:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say why he left you. But if he was not happy in the relationship then maybe it was for the best. You cannot force someone to love you, and the best way to deal with it is to get back out there, with your friends and have fun and enjoy life. Maybe if he sees you are not falling apart without him he might think over his decision to leave you. And if he does ask to get back together, dont say yes straight away. let him see that you are a strong person in your own right. Trust me, Men will respect you more if you do.
2006-09-24 02:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Pauline N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-31 01:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you need to give him some space. Try to think what went wrong. Then talk to him. It would depend on the reason why he left you. Was is something that you've done or you havent done? Was it a third party? But whatever it is, if he really love you he will go back.
2006-09-24 02:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by cutiegreyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to get him back coz if you do he's gonna break up with you again. Not to be negative. It would be better if you made best friends with him.Best friends is the best thing ever. In that way you would not be missing him as you would be in contact with him and see yourself as someone who deserves even better.
2006-09-24 02:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by tyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋