Does a man's character matter to a woman?

Question

You have to wonder when you see so many women judging a man by what kind of Harley he rides, what kind of shoes he wears, and what kind of cigarettes he smokes.

On the other hand, a man who is confident, honest, mentally and physically healthy, stands up for what he believes in, and offers a hand to those who are less fortunate, is viewed by women as being "boring" and "too nice".

Answer 1

I care more about a man's character and intelligence than his appearance or fashion sense, but I do have to find him at least a little attractive to consider sleeping with him. I have a different opinion than most women about what's a good looking, though. I don't like the playboy type; I never felt I could trust them.

Answer 2

That's not totally true, I think. Women need confident, honest, mentally and physically healthy, stands up for what he believes in, and offers a hand to those who are less fortunate men, of course, but women don't always tell about it. Maybe they just got affected from their friends, cause friends to all women mean everything. Maybe they judge a man that way to impressive their friends. But, most of woman looks men from their cover, really. I think men do that too. After all, those women whose choose men by their good-looking will know who is the best.

Answer 3

It matters to me, a man's character. I could care less about Harleys anyway, but let's say I like certain cars or something. That wouldn't come into play if I saw him being a jerk to someone.

Unfortunately, sometimes you have to dig deeper on the ones who seem very nice and confident, honest, healthy, etc. and make sure he is also not other things such as lazy. But yes, character matters to me. That's why I hardly dated anyone.

Answer 4

There are women who only want the flashy men, just as there are men who only want the beautiful women. Some change with age and experience, some never do. In my experience as a medium-attractive female, I've found that no matter how good *I* am to a guy who is bemoaning his lack of luck with women, he usually wants one that's better looking and is going to break his heart again. It works both ways.

Answer 5

Only shallow women would consider a man boring or too nice if they had all the characteristics you descibed in paragraph two. Paragraph one is all superficial, and if a relationship is based only on these things, then obviously it won't last.

Answer 6

mans character can capture the interest of a woman if the woman feel interested to the man but if not you seem nothing to her even you ;;show everything good character to her you will be considered nothing to her. but if you have some not good habit or character if the woman was attracted to a man., she will forget that bad character, then she will do everything which will catch your attention anbd care and that is love