I've been with this man for two years. We have a child together and have plans to get married. My birthday just passed and he forgot it. He spent the day at a race track. What would you do if your partner forgot your birthday?
2006-09-24 02:12:12 · 11 answers · asked by MixMatch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
remind him. maybe he has a memory gap
2006-09-24 02:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that he forgot. Make dineer plans for your next Birthday with a close female friend and tell him all about your plans, go on and on about how much fun you are going to have. Get a Motel room and make a shop all day and dinner than watch movies night of it. Use his credit card.
2006-09-24 09:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by jl_jack09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's young, right? If not, he's really inconsiderate. If he's young, he's just selfish out of youth. Be hurt, which I'm sure you are, and don't feel guilty about letting him know you're hurt and angry, which I'm sure you won't and make sure he knows if he wants you happy, which I'm sure he does, he will never do it again and make up for it this time, which I'm sure he will try to do. Make sure you don't let him forget about it too soon, but don't be too hard on him (if he's young). Then kiss and make up, harder times are ahead so don't turn this into World War III, you'll need the emotional strength for those times. Good luck & take care, -Rick
2006-09-24 09:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't base the entire relationship on him forgetting your birthday but I would definately remind him that he forgot it and see what his rreaction is. That hurts when the people closest to us forget things like that! He owes you an explination! Has he forgotten other important dates? His parents, brothers, sisters birthdays, anniversaries....etc?
2006-09-24 09:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by lyleanme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a child for him and you guyz are not yet married.?..what mistake you made...you have already given him what he will be looking for in marriage..so he is no more willing to get married to you...and he could be seeing someone else...but these are all guesses...he could be under stress...or your relationship with him is breaking somewhere....maybe the spark that brought you both 2gether is no longer there...i think you should call him and talk to him maturedly and tell him what he is making you to think...do this respectfully, so that he will tell you whatz up....if you dont believe him...try spying on him.....check the calls he recieves on his phone....check his cloths...give him an unexpected visit to the office
and be friendly to a neutral lady in his office...i think this should help...but his 4geting your birthday is no good sign at all...see ya
2006-09-24 09:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by funnykindel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. People do forget things. This doesn't mean he loves you any less. Don't worry to much about it.
Now, did he actually bid money on the track?? THat would be a big red flag to me.
2006-09-24 09:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to find another partner.
2006-09-24 09:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by cooperman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next year have a party at the track xxx
2006-09-24 09:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by robcostabrava@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget his, and christmas, and other specail occasion till he gets the picture
2006-09-24 09:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have hurt feelings too....Tell him how much it bothers you.
2006-09-24 09:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Vicki S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋