I love my husband so much and I worry @ him all the time, and now he is going on a trip to TX to take his grandma home, and I am just scared @ him going. I had a dream that he would be killed and dumped in a ditch and that I would see it on the news, should I go with him even though it will cost me time off work and I will incur points(we are on a system that if you get 10 points they let you go, no questions asked, and I have 2) what would you do and what should I do plz help!!!!!!
2006-09-23 23:54:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no don't go look at it as a small self relaxation time take long baths eat fresh fruit do you toe nail wash you hair in beer smoke a cigar call a friend go to church put on a fancy dress should i keep going hug a dog cuddle a cat be nice to a neighbor talk to a bird clean the car pull your own finger and pass gas eat dinner in you underwear put a ad in the paper for no reason see how many people call dump soap in a public fountain watch the sun come up call some one in the telephone book to see how long you can talk to them then try to beat it do you want more e-mail me i will give you more ideas
2006-09-24 00:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by k dog 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can understand your dismay about your husband going away. I dont think it is possible to love someone too much. When you love a person you give them your all, all of your heart, your body and your soul. Do you think it is worth taking the time off work and incurring points with the possibility of losing your job. Your dream could just be a result of your worry for him. Let him go and take his Grandmother home but if it worries you so much then go with them.
2006-09-24 00:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant love too much, no, but you can get obsessed with someone or infatuated with them. This can happen to the degree that you may need help to stop it. It sounds to me like you worry way too much, and you need to take a reality check. Bad things are always happening in the world, they have since the dawn of man, but that doesnt mean hes going to be shot every time he walks out of the house to check the mail. You have to stop and think about it all. If he has made it to adult hood then he obviously knows what to stay away from and what is okay. I worry about my husband too, but I also know that life is going to happen even if you arent ready for it. So, to answer you question, no I dont think you should go with him. I think having him go alone and come home safe will show you that your fears are greater than the risk.
2006-09-24 00:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my family so much that I even kill them with my love. For them i would sacrifice myself. Wow I am so touched and impressed, you are a truly happy couple...anyway you should stay calm nothing will gonna happen with you husband.the chances for him to be killed are almost impossible. talk to him and try to solve this problem. But i think you should stay and be calm. I know what are you feeling now and the worries. many on my relatives have went by the car to many places and mostly i was alone and full of worries, but this has made me stronger and more independent and made me love my family more than I've ever imagine. i think you should take this test too, it will make you feel better. OK? If you need some help I'm willing to help you anytime.
2006-09-24 00:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Soso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and gut feelings. I do not know where he is leaving from, but I live in Calif and I can tell you going to Texas is a hard long drive. I am from Dallas, Texas and have gone that drive several times, but never alone. Every time I hear of my family making that drive, I just say, don't go alone. Go with your husband, and help him with the drive. Go and don't give it another thought. If you had a dream, someone is telling you to go, and I think I know who it is. Please do not stop for anyone out on the highway, as most of them are ex-convicts. I lived in New Mexico, and it is a very bad state for convicts and such. Just head on through that state, and don't stop for anyone. Even if they act like they are having trouble, call the highway police, do not stop.
2006-09-24 00:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear is a tormenting spirit which you must learn to conquer. You cannot be with your husband all the time and even if you could, there's no way you could stop bad things from happening to him or to yourself. You are not God. Please try to trust that your husband will be fine. If you truly believe your dream is a premonition then speak with your husband about this and see what solution the two of you can come up with. Everyone has both good and bad things happen in their lives but no one can control ALL things.
2006-09-24 00:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always good to be with your loved one... but if he wants to go alone then let him go alone but if u were staying because u cant go and u will be loosing working hrs then... as u said if u can make the hrs and go GO FOR IT go with him.. but see what he likes dont push him too much.. ask him... honey can i come with you? to TX... if he says uhmmmm but u got work to do tel him... u can take the hrs od a day or 2 off no probs... for sure... if he gives another reason then he might need just to go alone.... but if he is explain about ur work then tell him u can handle work later... and GO! GO! GO! not for the sake of the dream but for love's sake.. dreams are just imaginations
2006-09-24 00:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Musah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you sound a little paranoid! Don't take your dreams so serisouly! They are just repressed fears. Sounds like your scared of being alone. Don't grow too dependent on your hubby. I'm sure you will live long and happy life together, but you need to let go if these fears. If your hubby is healthy, it is a bit irrational to believe your dreams will come true.
2006-09-23 23:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great that you love your husband so much, but you must get over your fear and obsession of your husbanb possibly getting hurt, or dying. If you constantly worry about death, you will have no time for living. Take comfort in knowing that Jesus said, that He will be with all of us till the end of time, and He will look out for each of us in a way which no human care can equal.
2006-09-23 23:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take a breath. you have a real problem with this fear about losing him one way or another. ill bet hes getting pretty sick of all your fears too. let him take his gm home. even if by some freaky chance he was killed, you being there would not change anything. unless he has a self destructive streak or a very dangerous job just lighten up and let the man breathe. see someone about why u worry all the time.
2006-09-24 00:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋