I am bisexual but I do not admit it to my family and friends but I think they already have a clue because sometimes it shows in my actions and I can't have serious relationships with guys. Sometimes I feel insecure that in my age like I'm 22 years old, i haven't had any serious relationship yet with a guy. The longest relationship that I had was only 4 months. What should I do?and About my sexual preference?
2006-09-23 23:34:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Please don't listen to Ms. Genuine's ignorant answer. Clearly, she has her head in her ---. There is definitely not anything wrong with you and it is okay to have any sexual preference you want. It is not wrong, nor is it gross.
In time, your heart will tell you the right thing for you to do. If at one time you're attracted to a man so be it. Maybe, you haven't met the right one yet. If you're attracted to a woman, same thing applies.
The point is that you should not feel ashamed or that there is something wrong with you because there absolutely is not!!!
2006-09-23 23:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by AskAj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Sh*t when I was 22 years old I didn't have a serious relationship and I am straight I was worried about men, parties, drinking, etc. Your still young live your life just live it safe and someone will come along. As far as your sexual preference it is what it is. Don't change unless that's what you want to it would be a waste to wake up one day and say that your not happy because your gay or straight. .
2006-09-24 09:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by nicetee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 22 and you can't spell "gross"? That's pretty sad...
Anyway, being bisexual isn't anything to be ashamed about, nor is being straight or completely homosexual. It's just another one of those things that make us who we are, and in my opinion I think everybody should leave the homosexual issue alone, get along with everybody, and let God decide ALL of our fates. It's pointless that we're trying to ban same-sex marriage, since it's not our job to decide who goes to heaven and who goes to hell. You seem pretty unsure about your preference, though, so I think it would be best if you kept experimenting with having relationships with both males and females, and hopefully one day you can find where you are most comfortable at. Another piece of my two-cents is to not try to force a relationship to continue or to even be started. Everything happens in due time, live a little and stop worrying about dating.
2006-09-24 11:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tranquility 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sweetie, you're not gross! You're beautifully human and you're going through a tough time right now. It's not easy to come to terms with your sexuality(hell, we've all been there, including yours truly!). Work on loving yourself and telling your family and friends about you. If they accept it, great! If not, then at least you have the courage to press on. Embrace it and love YOU for YOU! Good luck, boo.
By the way, MsGenuine, it wouldn't hurt for you to use the spell check feature next time. It's obvious that you're insensitive and cruel, but you can at least learn how to friggin' spell!
2006-09-24 11:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really know what bisexual is????
It does not mean that you can't have serious relationships and you go sleeping around with guys, gals, and whatever whenever you want.
It means that you can at any time be involved with male or female and you can be turned on by either one. You are open to either one. It does not mean that you can sleep around. That is called being a ho.
2006-09-24 06:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
22 years old and can't spell the word GROSS?
You have bigger problems than what you ask in your question.
2006-09-27 22:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i should hope not because i certainly am
2006-09-24 06:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by English gothic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋