A girl named Pulgita justified her selfishness by stating that her lover's wife was mean to him. Do you think that is even any of her business? I guess the married jack-*** made it her business by betraying his wife in the first place. There is no justification for cheating on your spouse or for dating a married individual.
2006-09-23 23:10:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Many people, men and women try to candy coat it by saying things as this women said. That she(the wife)was mean to him(the hubby). Or that one or another was not giving up to the level as the other one. Or being inattentive. Or the catch all "it just happened". A toaster catches fire just happened. A flat tire just happened. To cheat, you had to have it in your mind. It would be as lame as if you went to your neighbor's home to borrow a rake and seen his garage 2/3 of the way open and his new sports car in it. And you just happen to wonder in, see the keys in the ignition. The just happened to sit behind the wheel, start the car, put in into gear and drive off the driveway in it. It did not just "happen". Basically people are selfish. They want the pleasure the way they want it, how they want it, and when they want it. Instead of using logic and asking themselves, "what if she did this to me? Or "if he would be OK with me having sex with another man?" Some try to say "it was just sex, I didn't really care about them. It is YOU I want" Makes about as much sense as your parents telling you they loved you but at Christmas buying a lot of cool toys and giving them to the kids down the street.
2006-09-23 23:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating can never be justified. If you want to have sex with another person...leave the one you're with.
I tell people this all the time. I say there are soo many people in the world that will have sex with a person with little or no relationship..have sex with those people, not the ones that want a monogamous relationship.
In doing so you're just hurting them, unless those are you're intentions.
2006-09-24 09:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do justify my cheating because:
1.- I got married 4 months ago. In that period of time the first time i had sex with my husband was 45 days after we got married.
2.- That was the only time we have had sex.
3.- Cz after 2 months of married i found that he was cheating on me, after 2 weeks of marriage.
4.- Cz, he doesnt' want a leave me....even when i am asking him every day to move. (is my house not his)
5.- Cz i am ill, after i had read his cel phone texts msn. with *the other*
6.- Cz she calls home every hour. to what ever the time of the day.
7.- Cz she calls me to my cel phone over and over again, till i changed my phone number
8.- Cz she calls me to my job site over and over again, and he doesn't say any thing.
9.- Cz i was feeling smaller than a roach cz all what he done to me, feeling ugly, and now i found that is only him the one who is a roach.
10. Cz i was needing some affection.
YES, CZ OF THESE REASONS, YES I JUSTIFY MY CHEATING.
2006-09-24 06:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ritamorales. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody whose in a relationship is gonna touch this one, sweetie. If they do, then they are either a moron or full of s***. Luv, Rat.
2006-09-24 06:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no justification for cheating any woman who would do that to another woman is a whore
2006-09-24 06:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by isabel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be judgemental. Karma- what goes around comes around. Worry about your life not other peoples mistakes.
2006-09-24 06:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by jayzsbabygrl721 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that I do agree on .....I fooled around on my supposed soulmate cause, we have not had any sexual contact in over 8 months ~ she just keeps ticking me off ....so I lost all interest in her ! It's time for her to fly away !
2006-09-24 06:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋