my female friends don't like me because all the guys in the group give me more attention. they always compliment me but hardly ever compliment any of them. but the reason they do that is because those girls sit and talk abt the most useless, mundane, meaningless, girly-girly crap known to mankind and i DONT! so therefore, the guys feel like i'm the only girl they can have an intelligent conversation with! almost all the guys in our group have asked me out, but i've only gone out with one of them- so the girls hate me because of that too!
i'm probably AS or even MORE feminine than these girls but i just don't publicise it!
the girls always sit and talk abt how fat they feel and keep picking their flaws and even if one of our (girl) friends is wearing an awful item of clothing they all go on abt how great it looks- if i'm asked, i HONESTLY say that it doesn't suit them! i much rather be honest than be fake! i mean wut happened to the whole honesty is the best policy motto?
2006-09-23 22:40:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Most girls are like that, but i feel that you are doing the right thing by being yourself - don't change who you are for them. Maybe you could try to find other female friends - people who have the same intellectual capacity as you? And also, when they ask you how something looks, you can say something about some other outfit that they had worn, that you had liked...instead of saying that their outfit doesn't suit them - personally, i would not mind any1 telling me that something does not suit me - i'd take it as advice - but most people can't take critisicm - so finding friends that can - that will help;)
2006-09-23 22:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dark_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, im big into fashion, not because of what people think but its what i like. Those girls are probably too much into the media and what not. They try to be someone other than themselves. As far as picking their flaws, it is a way for some reassurance because most people arent like you and i. We will blantely say whats on our minds. So my advice is, dont even worry about it. You need new friends then. Some friends that you are more compatible with. You should be able to show the person you are and if they dont like it they can get over it. They are the ones that will have the shitty relationships and what not and continue to never be happy unless they always get reassurance like i said before. And it is more than completely fine for a girl to be friends with more guys than girls. that doesnt mean that youre a slut or anything, you can handle the opposite sex well. So dont let this piddly crap knock ya down!!!!!
2006-09-23 22:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by jane b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you are asking us why females don't like you when you answered you own question. You sound a bit arrogant, it doesn't matter how attractive you are, if you are arrogant you will attract attitude from other women, and when the guys see you as something other than someone who they can get "something" from, they'll dislike you too. Now, I'm not saying this to be insulting, I'm just making an observation, and before you discount it, take a second to consider whether or not this may be true.
2006-09-23 23:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read your previous questions and realized you seek attention. It's not that the girls hate you for your looks, but rather you seek out approval from males. Even if you are pretty, you act like a male to assimilate with your male friends, to fill the father/male void. Strong mother/weak father roles are most common with girls who"don't get along with other girls". Ask yourself why you need approval, before you end up getting pregnant or worse, raped by a frustrated male "friend".
2006-09-23 22:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Drgeeforce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think their just jealous and I totally agree with you. It annoys me when other girls do that. I wouldn't say I'm the smartest person, but all my guys friend know I could send them through a brain teaser. Some guys just like to be challenged more then just in their flexibility. I hope they get over it, but chances are that will never happen. Have fun being you.
2006-09-23 22:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
isn't it very clear that they are simply jealous of u?
considering this,they are not ur true frnds
don't care abt them and go on with ur life
ur disliked coz u're different from them
do not try to change urself becoz this is what u are
u'll be respected for ur honesty in the long run but try not to be rude
2006-09-23 22:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is the "usually" the best policy and I emphasize the word: usually.
2006-09-23 22:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by late4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've got all the answers allready, so why bother. But if it is realy bothering you,
maybe you should try to really like yourself first and the rest will follow
2006-09-23 23:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by djukamantalkingback 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuo probally flirt to much and demand all the attention try wearing a little more
2006-09-23 22:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by big_al225 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see thats what a guy likes to see in a female and they are all just jealous of you because you know how to interact with a guy and they don't.
2006-09-23 22:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_lil_woman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋