I have this one friend that likes to give me hugs when alone or in public, hold hands in public, and call me 'sweetheart' alone or sometimes (but rarely) in public too. I do not mind, but he is bi and almost everyone knows it, so they have started rumours about him and me which is kind of embarrassing, and I am lucky my parents have not heard them!
2006-09-23 22:27:01 · 17 answers · asked by William 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U DECIDE GIRL, IT IS A MATTER OF PERSONAL CHOICE, I WOULD NOT WANT TO INFLUENCE IT.
2006-09-23 22:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he calls you sweetheart and holds your hand in public....don't mean anything...he's a mate, he may be like this other people too, if you feel uncomfortable then drop it to him lightly in a nice way and tell him you'd prefer it if he didn't do it...don't worry about what other people think...as long as you know that nothing is happening then i don't see what all the fuss is about....i have a friend who is bi too...she is always hugging me and holding my hand and calling me luvvie and honey...don't mean i am bi...it's just friendly affection that's all
2006-09-23 23:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I care what my wife and my family think and that's about it. Your true friends will accept you and your bi friend. Unless you're willing to give up the friendship with this guy, I just wouldn't pay attention to what anyone else says. It just sounds like they're being very childish.
2006-09-23 23:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind the rumours, you are a good friend, let them think what they like. If you feel uncomfortable about this you should talk to him, but choose your words carefully.
2006-09-23 22:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by chickadee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r truly his friend and care about him, u shouldn't care what others think. but if this is beginning to be a big problem for u (especially with ur folks) then talk to him. if hes ur friend, he'll understand and will try not to be so "open" with u (in public at least.)
2006-09-23 22:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by bukroot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what is in your heart so other peoples opinions should mean little to you unless they are those of the people you trust and you know care about you and true parents love no matter what. Just be true to yourself
2006-09-23 22:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by william john l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
F*ck what people think, if you aren't gay you aren't gay. But HE sure is. That guy wants a piece, man, seriously. Tell him to back off a bit or be prepared for a very rough night.
2006-09-23 22:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry about what other people think, as long as you are comfortable with your friend being this way with you then it shouldnt matter. if it does concern you however you should maybe try and talk to your friend and explain the situation and maybe ask them to be abit less touchy feely with you.
2006-09-24 00:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on Billy Boy, get out the closet and learn that lisp...
2006-09-23 22:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable with his behaviour then tell him that although you really like hiom, you are not a touchy, feely type of person & you would prefer ifn he didn't do it.
2006-09-23 22:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you allow him to hold hands with you if you don t like it?
or you like it,or you tell him to stop it.and the other thing is:don t care what people say,they should care about themselves and not about you!
2006-09-23 22:32:05 · answer #11 · answered by nanuk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋