Okay, I've been smoking since I was 12. I am now 20. I don't do it often aynmore. My girlfriend knows I do it and she has hinted that she wants to try it. What's the best way to tell her no without really hurting her feelings? I wont let her do it. I'm not a moron. First, shes to young, 17, and secondly, her parents would kil me if they found out. But mainly, I love her too much to let her do this.
2006-09-23 22:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way, I haven't smoked in about a month.
2006-09-23 22:04:13 · update #1
you kinda have to lead by example, she probably wants to try it because you do it, so why tell her you dont want her to try it if you do it, but if she does decides to try just remem weed leads to other drugs in most cases , but if you love her you will show her you love yourself also by not harming your body, how you treat your body is how you will treat hers, so I would suggest that you tell her in a loving way that smoking is not cool and its just a habit you have and will rid soon, beside you prob smoke to take away feelings of something in the past,,,smoking since 12??? whats on your mind..talk about it...Be Honest :)
2006-09-23 22:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by LifeWater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You doing a good thing but not wanting her to try it. the only thing to do is tell her all of the negative things that have happened to you and other people you know. If she can't take no as an answer best to scare her out of it.
2006-09-24 05:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore the hints and change the subject. let her notice that you havent been smoking pot either. you could also try making positive comments near her about how good you feel since youve stopped smoking pot, even if the comments arent true.
2006-09-24 05:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on that, but if she wants to try it she might just go and do it with someone else. Wouldn't you rather it be with you when you can watch her. I don't recommend it or anything but....yeah. If you really don't want her to tell her about it. Don't keep her in the dark about how you are felling. I wish ya the best of luck.
2006-09-24 05:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i must say thats very admirable for u to not let her...kudos! your a gentleman! i would say that your right to say shes too young and its a very bad habit...if u really care about this girl you will stop entirely then she wont want to do it...you got a good head on your shoulders...dont let her start that ****
2006-09-24 05:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
explain to her about your situation......tell her that her parents will be hurt if she do so.....smoking is bad......tell her that u love her soo much that u wouldn't want her to suffer bad health....u also must sacrifice a little by not smoking just to tell her that u love her enough to stay by her side......i mean in good condition....lol....
2006-09-24 05:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her good sex. That will quiet her for awhile until she get the urge to want to try weed again... The cycle never ends.
Just give it to her or she will get the weeds from some place else. Or you should stop using weeds.
2006-09-24 05:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is good ,just tell her you don't want her to smoke that it is a turn off for you to see pretty young girls like her smoking.
2006-09-24 05:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by carmen b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy!
2006-09-24 05:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its nice u care, but it is her choice. just like it was ur choice. would u have liked it if someone would have told u, u can't they forbid it. after all i bet u didn't clear ur smoking with ur parents. would they have been for it?
2006-09-24 05:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋