But sometimes you question how much you love the person that you're currently with? If so, what is the best way to handle this?Does it work itself out in the end?
2006-09-23 21:54:30 · 14 answers · asked by Jay S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, this happens too often. I had to sit down and do a comparison. Then go over it with close freinds of mine that would not be judgemental but honest. Then, I was able to talk to the one that I loved more but had many bad things attached to him, such as bad habits and would not treat me good. Then,.... I took a chance and went with the one that had soo many things going for him and treated me with respect. I TOOK a chance. Love is about taking chances, becuz Love is NEVER garanteed
2006-09-23 22:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..i was in love with my husband..but things got really bad and i started to turn to a guy at work and i split from my husband for about 3 weeks and after that period of time i realized that the grass IS NOT greener on the other side..if there was once a spark or a flutter with the 1st person you were with then there is a way to get it back....follow your true heart
2006-09-23 21:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Liz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im confident that's available yet its no longer an outstanding aspect in any respect. once you want someone your finished heart must be with them no longer 1/2 of it with one human being and the different 1/2 with the different human being. per chance you want to step back and look on the issue. per chance take a ruin from a relationship to figure out what you truly desire. You cant be with someone at the same time as all of your wondering about is that you want some different person too. this can damage an outstanding relationship. merely take a ruin and look at what you truly desire. Who do you've more advantageous thoughts in direction of is what you truly desire to figure out....
2016-11-23 18:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but i never act on it..
Things are not always as they seem.. I have been in that kind of place - they seem to be ,, but most likely thay are - more of
a lie.. If you were with them for a good amount of time they would turn into someone else - different then the person you fell in love with..
2006-09-23 22:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by John Hopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that has happened but having a crush on someone else when you are already in a good relationship is common. I decided it would be foolish to throw away what I already have.
2006-09-23 21:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-23 21:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,once I found my-self in the same situation as you.Be careful.Don't jump at ending the relation-ship your in now for the other woman.Waite...let thing's chill for awhile.I'm not saying it will stop your love feeling's for the out-sider..that you will keep.You Love the one your with..stay there..mine had another lover he kept hid from me.I still,to this day,thank God I didn't jump.I stayed with my husband for 34 years.He died 3 years ago.We were happier those last i4 years than you could imagine.Don't jump.
2006-09-23 22:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mine usually lasts for a day and then I move on to another to love.
2006-09-23 22:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,in fact it is a very difficult situation to choose any one of them.I have two girl friends,both very beautiful,itelligent and they boyh like me.So,i"m in a very big trouble now to whom to choose as my girlfriend
2006-09-23 22:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by chunu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to actually figure out whether its love or lust. Theres alot of people out there who confuse love and lust. Im sorry to say this, but usually its lust.
2006-09-23 22:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋