i know its the oldest story in the book but does a woman have the right to cheat too if the husband is caught cheating? a close friend and her husband i know just got married like 7 months ago and they are on the brink of breaking up.i really don't know what to say to her but go see a marriage counselor.
2006-09-23 21:47:54 · 28 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, two wrongs don't make it right. In my opinion, if your friend just got married and there are no kids involved, she would be better off just getting out of the relationship now. It's apparent that there has been a complete loss of trust between the two of them and once that's gone, it's unlikely to ever been regained. Plus, there is obviously a lack of respect on the part of her spouse. So, why waste any more time in a bad relationship? Tell her to cut her losses now and get out of the relationship before it involves children or a division of real property. Then she can go find a real man that will treat her with dignity and respect.
2006-09-23 22:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Desiderata of Happiness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right to cheat. I don't really know if you have the right to cheat or not that all depends if you believe in your vows.
7 months married. Cheating already. Thinking of counseling.
I would say time to end your marriage. If you cant make it a year without all these problems you will never make it a lifetime. Stop it now before you are worse off than now.
Married life is nothing like you have stated.
End it now.
2006-09-23 22:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question to answer. Cause she has to consider how her life will be without the security of her husband. This may sound silly, but if I was her, I will get myself together and put myself in a position where I am able to be self sufficent. However long it takes tomake that happen, then in the most discreet way as possible,i will find someone on the side who is not full of drama, and who she can connect with from time to time. At this point, there is nothing wrong with it, especially if the husband is cheating. Women have to start being smarter about issues like this and use your head, and not your heart. Cause that emontional stuff will get you into trouble each and every time.
2006-09-23 21:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If, it's not working then a marriage counselor should help ( only if, both participate ) ! If that's not going to happen then, it's time to move on ~ oh yeah, the security is already in the bag ! Judges usually favor the women and they end up with a nice chunck of change and at least 1/2 the home !
2006-09-23 21:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the husband was caught cheating the woman should not do the same thing because it will make matters worst. Committing another mistake won't solve a problem. Communication as far as i am concern is the best solution. And take a look of ourselves we might be at fault and resolve this within ourself and then talk to our partner make a commitment to each other.
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2016-04-22 22:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right,just more complication.
If she cheats on him more then likely there will be nothing to work out.If she wants the marriage to stay together the best advice would be to go see a marriage counselor.
She and her husband need to figure out weather or not they both want to be in this marriage.If they do then they can begin to repair the mistrust.
2006-09-23 21:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by kandn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
frankly if there are no kids involve and one partner cheats, then the reason for cheating has to be found, whether only for fun or some emotional need was there, and marriage is only social acceptable form of love, if there is no love between two people, marriage for namesake is futile, so if your friends marriage is breaking due to reasons other than love, then marriage counselor can help, but if love is not there nothing can help, trust me on that
2006-09-23 22:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by honestanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage without love is pointless and cheating because the other spouse cheated is not the right thing to do as two wrongs don't make a right, ever.
2006-09-23 22:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad had that situation too where he caught my step-mom cheating on him since he was way older than her. My advice there is that, talk to both of them and you act as a mediator. You ask both of them what their problem is, listen to how each of them react. You then suggest to them what to do, eiher pledge to one another that they will do better. If their problem will still be unresolved, just ask if they really wanna divorce. Lastly, you have to teach them how love works like it should be there through the best and worst times. They decided for their marriage because they love each other. SHare more words of wisdom and encouragement if you see that there will still be a positive development between both. Maybe they need a baby or something and they just couldnt say it to each other... Sometimes, little things like this can also cause problems that leads to divorce. I hope my advice helps. Oh ya, for my dad, they just chose to live separately and still husband and wife. Well... each person has their own idea of how to improve their lives eh?!
2006-09-23 21:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by entrepreneur_boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋