2006-09-23 21:21:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No matter what you do or say,it will be harder if you take it seriously, life is not fair in all aspects. So let go and just enjoy life. Go out with whom you enjoy with and be happy. Negative can stress you out and gives you a lot of wrinkles. So be positive all the time.
2006-09-23 23:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it is not, but it is seen by some influencial groups like religions, traditions and what not as wrong. These groups just don't want their values to be challenged, and saying that it is bad would probably be the best answer. But for these religions and traditions, if they don't adopt some of their old thinkings to reflect the current values, they would not last long. Fact that many are turning away from religions, and these groups are probably saying that these people are getting controlled over by the devils; it is the people's problem not the religion, since the religion is flawless or at least there are no need for changes to accomodate them. I don't think that is true.
2006-09-24 05:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Skys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I find hard about being gay is meeting people.
2006-09-24 10:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is still a lot of prejudice towards gay people. Society does not accept this life style or understand it. Ignorance and suspicion can bring out the evil in people.
2006-09-25 04:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard wearing a label. If you stop trying to define yourself according to a label you will find it easier, because your sexuality is something that is natural to you and should be treated as such. If you make out it is something to be uncomfortable about others will tend to reflect that. Don't get me wrong there will always be bigots and, unfortunately that is just the way of the world. However you need ot feel comfortable about yourself, before others can start responding accordingly.
2006-09-24 05:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think the hardest part of being gay,is if your in a relationship and there are kids involved-What i mean is if the other one has kids and they get in the middle,or they just don't approve of it,and they try to make your life a living hell!!! Other than that it isn't too bad for me-Just my opinion here!!!!!
2006-09-24 13:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only hard cause of the people in the world that can't accept it. If you can accept that you are the way that god make you and just because of your orientation it doesn't make you any different then who cares what other people think.
2006-09-24 04:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not hard its just every one else that makes it hard.and that's because they have a problem w/ them selves and fail to see there own faults but if just worried about whats right for u and hang around people that except u for u. you'll b OK.and if any one hasn't told u ur special today u are. have a great day.
2006-09-25 14:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard because some of society doesnt accept it, and because u tend to fall for the str8 person. but other than that its not that bad.
2006-09-24 18:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has something to do with the ease of so many not to want to understand something and the ease to hate that which they donot understand.
2006-09-24 04:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋