they say don't read into something that is not there. Yet they make their presance in your life known to everyone you assoicate with. Meanwhile it is like you are their best kept secret. Only a few of THEIR friends know about you and they are protecting you from their faimly and the drama in their life. God forbid you keep something from them, they flip. What to do, What to do?
2006-09-23 20:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(s)he's got something to hide - run!
2006-09-23 20:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this because it is probably not true, but do you think he may be ashamed of you? If that is the case, the kick him to tbe curb because he is not good enough for you. Or he could be living a double life. He has you here and another girlfriend somewhere else. I for one would demand to Know why the hell he is keeping me from his family and friends. I hope everything works out for you. I would definately investigate this if I were you.
2006-09-23 20:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Karin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows his family would not approve of you. maybe because of culture, racer or relgion. the last resort would be he may be very much ashamed of you. and he fears the negativity he would get from his close family and friends. if after two years he still has not told his family about you, then he is hiding something. you need to leav him now. it is not going to get any better. if this was for real to him and he cared he would want all his family and friends to know you...... sorry but he is only using you.
2006-09-23 20:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to this person and let them know how you're feeling. It's not fair that he/she can do this to you but you can't do the same. There needs to be equality in a relationship. And besides why does he/she need to protect you from everybody they know? I'm sorry but that REALLY sounds suspicious.
2006-09-23 20:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by .LoveStoned. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTROL FREAK! That's not good! Sounds like you already know that! He must have something to hide that he's afraid of his people telling you or you telling them!
Are you sure he doesn't have someone else that he's with around his people?
2006-09-23 20:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm it sound like he is either really scared to introduce you to everyone or he does not want you/then to get attached.
2006-09-23 20:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles_15_1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd keep the 4 other guys i'm seeing behind his back a secret..... 2 can play at that game.
2006-09-23 20:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Delete System32 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Respect their secret ! They will let you know when they completely trust in you as they trust themselves.
2006-09-23 20:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ngoc L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it on
2006-09-23 20:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋