2006-09-23 20:11:06 · 19 answers · asked by christy_carter05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know guys like that... it
s because they don't wanna lose their girlfriend. But also, they just wanna have fun with other girls as well... I know, It sux.
2006-09-23 20:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by board2ider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things happen they are attracted to someone that is not theirs. It is a trill for some others they feel a real connection like they did with you and often wonder. They tend to act on that feeling rather than see what they have. In answer to your question when a man is having a affair they don't want to break up with the woman they are with out of fear of being alone. If the person they are with does not know of the affair and it does not work they still have you. I have been on both sides I know.
2006-09-24 03:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
also some guys cheat because they did not have much experience before they met their girlfriend, like those that cheat on their first gf or they just leave them because they want more experience.....some guys just do it for the sex but love their girlfriend......some also saw their father do it and so they do it. plus the statement once a cheater always a cheater i do not believe that....arent there many things we are guilty of when we were young but that we do not do now. like alot of person in their teenage years might steal but when they are grown they dont do it anymore.
plus i know we are all guilty of doing stuff and none of us are perfect okay.....but dont get me wrong some guys are just dogs and do not care, but their are others who are sorry about what they did.
cheating is very hard thing to deal, (i am trying to deal with being cheated on), but hopefully the person will actually see what they did and wish to change and save the relationship. plus sometimes its best to stay with what you have as you might get someone who is much worst and the cycle starts again.
2006-09-26 19:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are getting something out of the relationship that they don't want to lose. like money, place to live, a ride, car, whatever, and those kind of people just want more and more.
for instance a married man loves his wife and kids, his house, and what he shares with his family, he does not want to have a divorce and risk losing everything he's worked for, so he sneaks around and cheats on his wife.
that's how i see it. and that is the only reason why i think a "man" would cheat on his loved ones.
2006-09-24 03:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys cheat cuz they jus think dat he cant pass up da oppertunity to be wit dat new girl or if its an oldfriend girl hes been wit jus cuz he still wants some from her ....and then some guys jus wanna bang all types of girls.wit out losin da person there wit ....in short we jus dont wanna lose..but then again nobody does male or female.. ur right it would be easier to break up and not hurt u girls...but nobody wants to lose
2006-09-24 03:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys have the theory of "what they don't know, won't hurt them". They are so cocky, that they think they will never get caught. I'm so glad some one has the same view as me. But not all men are the same, you'll know when you meet a good one, but you'll mistake putting your trust in alot of fakes 1st.
2006-09-24 03:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bec they don't want to be the first to mention about a break up.
Happen to two of my friends already. They cheat first and let the girls to do the break up talk. Then they just simply say... ya, i think we should break up.
Easy job for them.
Bastard!
2006-09-24 03:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably because they like the thrill of having more. that or because they are so use to the person that they are with, they dont see leaving them as an option. But you have to ask why do women do the same thing.
2006-09-24 03:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_airforce_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has something to do with the thrill of it and the thrill of trying not to get caught. They can have the best of all worlds. And I think some men are just dogs and cant help it . some I believe just never can be faithful
2006-09-24 03:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tears30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem, possibly poor parenting, lack of morals,dignity,pride..i can honestly say and I take great pride in this...my lips have never met the lips of another girl when I have been committed to someone...I learned this from my father who has been married to my mom for 37 yrs..I am also a believer in karma and what comes around goes around...so I am sure you will be fine! :D Tom
2006-09-24 03:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Tom H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because at the time they want to cheat the girlfriend is not close to break up with her
2006-09-24 03:13:12 · answer #11 · answered by Luis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋