I am a big 15 year old and I want a baby BUT i dont have periods, do you have to have your period to have a baby? ALSO can your baby die if your to big?? I think i am gonna try and get pregnant
2006-09-23 20:07:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
What a silly girl, why would you want to have a baby before you have even stopped growing yourself?
Did you know that many teens want to have a child because they are feeling abandoned and want a child because they think this will solve the this person will never leave me.
Talk to a school counselor er as soon as possible, get Someone to explain the functions of your body to you!
Yes its not good for you or your child if you get pregnant before your body stops growing. You are to young to be having sex, and doing so will only deepin your feelings of abandonment. Boys and men will use you sexually, but won't want you because you give into sex to easily, they will not have any concept of what you are trying to do,(be loved) and as you go from boy to boy you will get a reputation as a Sl**, and be used over and over again!
Sometimes a dysthymic depression can happen in child and adolescents, and causes deep rooted feeling of pain, anger, and not feeling happy, some girls become sexual active so they can have a baby, so they have someone to love them, or they confuse sex with love.
In boys and girls too they will seek attention by getting in to fights, petty crimes, gangs, then before long your life is ruined and your still a child.
You are not thinking in a rational mannor, you will only be causing yourself more pain and sadness, and if you do get pregnant you will be a child raising a child, you won't have the money or maturity to give your child all the things he/she will need to grow strong, healthy and emotionally happy.
Please talk to someone it would be harmful to both you and the child, its not fair or rational for you to expect a little baby to give you the happiness that you are wanting and needing.
Believe it or not once you discover this child is unable to fulfill that want/need you will resent your child, possible be negellecting and maybe even abusive, but for sure you will not be able to give the child the emotional support and care she/he will need.
Please talk to a teacher, counselor, aunt, grandmother, if you can't talk or don't feel safe talking to your parents!! Please.
2006-09-23 20:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
babies are a very big reponsibity ,you are way to young to even think about having a baby, the only reason you want a baby is because they small, and cute, I have a 7 month old son and I am
26 yrs old I wish I would have waited babies are expensive,
they take all of your time, you cant' go out to the mall the movies
that baby relies on you for everything , he is a human don't take that for granted. I love my son with all my heart, they are a blessing if you are ready and old enough there is alot to think about when it comes to having a baby.no it would die if you are big Iam big and I had a baby, but if you have a baby young there is a chance of miscarriage because your body isn't ready.
yes even if you haven't had a peroid yet the first time you have sex you can. good luck I am not trying to be harsh, I am just letting you to be careful, think before you act. hope this helps!!!
2006-09-23 21:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tonia G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I seriously hope this question isn't serious! You can't get pregnant if haven't started your period yet, because that means you're not ovulating (releasing an egg). But at 15, you shouldn't even be having sex in the first place. Wait to have sex and a baby when you're an adult, have a good job, a good steady relationship, and have your own roof over your head. Good luck!
2006-09-24 00:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size matters but what worries me is your age. Young moms can have complications from being pregnant, not to mention they are bringing a baby into this world when they can't support themselves. You need to stop thinking about getting pregnant and focus on your education. Babies are for life but you can only live your highschool experience once. You are too young to be having a baby. Focus on something else.
2006-09-23 20:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by wendysorangeblossoms 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're FIFTEEN! Don't TRY to get pregnant. OMG!
You have your whole life ahead of you... finish school go to college if you can, get a career. Don't do it....
As for your health questions, yes, there can be complications if you're overweight. Most commonly, high blood pressure (can be fatal for both mother and child) as well as pregnancy-related diabetes. If you've never had a period then you're not ovulating yet. So you probably won't get pregnant if you tried. If you still haven't had a period in the next couple of years, see a doctor to see what's going on in your system.
2006-09-23 20:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl.Size doesn't matter for pregnancy. You cannot get pregnant if you have not started your period yet...
I am a single mom. It is alot of work. I am older and handle it well, and would not recommend it for a 15 year old. i also wanted children at 16, but I waited and am so glad i did. It is hard enough as a 29 year old (and holding, lol) signel mother... I really advise against this right now. it is SO MUCH work and being poor is not fun when you can't eat so your kid can...
2006-09-23 20:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
first of all your to young to get preg. so that would be the last thing on my mind if i was you
my wife had lots of friends until she got preg. and when she had the baby all of her friends did not want to be friends with her because she could not go out and party like every one else she got preg. at 16 and as far as if the baby could die if your to big yes the baby can die ir even you can die so i would lose some pounds
most guys don't want a girl that already has kids so
2006-09-23 20:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sweetie, you have no idea what you are about to get yourself into. talk to your parents about this, or go to the school counselor because WHAT in the world would a girl your age want a baby for?! Can you imagine- a baby wakes up constantly; sometimes every 20 min all night, they cry, scream; sometimes they dont stop for HOURS. how will you pay for a place to live, food, medical bills, how will you get where you need to go? you need to pay attention in school & concentrate on getting good grades & enjoy your childhood. DO NOT even think about having a baby right now; or you are going to ruin your life. TRUST ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 20:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey if you don't know that you have to have a period to get pregnant that you sure as hell shouldn't be having a baby!!!!! Do you still think the stork drops the baby at your doorstep or what?
2006-09-23 22:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Baby, if you're not old enough to know about this stuff then you're definately not old enough to have a baby. Go back to school, get an education, grow up and then have babies.
2006-09-23 20:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋