I feel that I have to ruin her life to mak emine better. because were always in comptetion. No matter what I do. I mean she always upstages me.. I'm, not the only one who feels like this by her. She always gets attitude with me at school, she thinks she's sooo good at everything she does, she thinks she's better than me, and she stole my date to homecoming. Well now what is she going to take, the way i wear my hat.
2006-09-23 19:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then find a new friend...
2006-09-23 19:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should reconsider your friendship in the first place because someone who steels your date is certainly not your best friend,In friendship there is no such thing as envy or trying to proove who is best at something.These kind of demonstrations are made between bitter rivals not best friends.Maybe you should both take a step back and leave this relathionship as it is and somehow in time try to understand each other, after all nobody says you should remain friends at all but you shoudn't make each other's life miserable.Trying to find a new group to fit in would be a good ideea.Last but not least if she acts like that with everyone around her it will not take long for her to end up alone and maybe she will reconsider her attitude towars whose she calls friends.
An open and sincere disscusion always helps so talk to her with your mind and soul free of hate or envy,you might be surprised of the results.Best of luck dear!
2006-09-23 19:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate and best friend do not go together. Lets just say she is someone you hang out with most often and share alot and you vibe well with and so you consider her as your best friend. Healthy competition is great between friends, but it is unhealthy to want to outsmart, upstage,demean or ruin the other. Sometimes good friends also take a step back to let the other shine.
If she is arrogant with everybody then that is just her nature and not your specific problem. Your problem is jealousy, envy and perhaps hurt at her uncaring arrogance. No one can steal a date unless he wanted to be stolen.
You stop comparing with her. Go out there and be the best you can. Distance yourself a little so that you can be pragmatic about what you do and how well you can do it. Stop letting her opinion and attitude affect who you are or how good you feel about yourself.
2006-09-23 19:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That change into the concern introducing him to her establishing the field. yet what you could do is initiate merely going out with her one at a time and attempt now to not communicate too a lot about him or replace the concern even as she does. maximum individuals who've been unfaithful were with maximum proper pals. so that you're precise to worry and be jealous. yet when she picked you, you should have strong qualitys, seems and so be confidant also. strong success
2016-10-16 02:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by sicilia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you guys really the best of friends? from ur question, i got the inkling that you guys are spending more time trying to upstage each other than hang out.
anyway, maybe you should talk to her about it. maybe she has her insecurities about herself and feels the need to always upstage someone and you just happen to be the most convenient person because ur the person she feels closest to...
you should really talk to her.
2006-09-23 20:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by tralala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new best friend, with a friend like her you don't need enemies. Friendship is a relationship and you need to learn that if you are in a bad one, GET OUT.
2006-09-23 20:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by unforgettable_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said u might hate her........... hate is strong and if u did hate her u would know it. Talk to her. if she is really a best friend she will listen. Good Luck. just catch her at the right time
or just start doing EVERYTHING like her. dress eat talk and walk like her. when she ask whats up tell say well you think you are sooooooo cool and i agree, i wanna be just like you. heck idk but anything is worth a try to get someones ego down
2006-09-23 21:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by blackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there might be some jealous just do the best you can and what is right. be your self and don't worry about what she does and thinks. find you some new friends
2006-09-23 21:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she tries to out-due you that must mean that you have something she wants! if she is doing all that she is a two faced hypocrite who is not really your friend.
2006-09-23 19:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a cousin that did this...i was close to her, but she always wanted teh men i talked to...one day she slept with a guy i was talking to..now i dont talk to her anymore
2006-09-23 19:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by ellie_2121 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋